I'm a christian and I'm married. I want to know, is it wrong to like to talk dirty to my husband during sex? I'm not quite sure if it's okay for us to be doing as christians. Serious answers only please.
2006-11-19 08:00:32 · 12 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Remember you will give an account for every idle word. Question is is Jesus pleased with what you say? Might depend on what you mean by dirty.
2006-11-19 08:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by beek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, both of you could use your body for pleasure. Talking dirty if it enhances your sexual desire would be completely okay. But like everything else should have a limit. The fact that you show concern makes me conclude that it is relatively tamed compared to what a wordly person might do.
2006-11-19 08:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to question if you really know what it is to be a christian. Profanity is neither edifying nor honouring, it has no place in the mouths or minds of Christians. Sorry if this sounds judgemental but that is how I see it according to God's Word.
2006-11-19 08:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Steiner 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am also a Christian and I see no reason you can't do anything you want in the privacy of your married love. Husbands and wives are meant to enjoy one another.
2006-11-19 08:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is fine to talk dirty to your husband. Also you may want to read the song of Solomon together.
2006-11-19 08:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't let perversion of any kind enter into your relationship with your husband when you are making love....just as your love should be pure for one another, so should your words....
God Bless.
2006-11-19 08:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by whitehorse456 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop living from of the tree of the knowlege of good and evil, and begin to live from the tree of life. Just live, you are under grace if you are letting Christ live in you.
2006-11-19 08:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sand 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Mav say if you both are happy and it turns you both on - enjoy dirty talk.
2006-11-19 08:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by Mav here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't say - "Do it Padre, Do it Padre" ... then I think it would be cool.
Seriously, if you aren't hurting anybody and both you and your husband agree to it - have fun.
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2006-11-19 08:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the BIBLE says the marriage bed is undefiled. I don't think you should use curse words but whatever you do is ok. That's the way I see it.
2006-11-19 08:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by suzie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋