16,mother of a 5 yr old,needs advice.?

Question

It is so hard raising a child. I made the mistake of getting pregnant and becoming a mother at only 11,so now I'm 16 with a 5 year old. ME and her father are still together and I have more than enough money to take care of her. DO you think we should tie the knot? We love each other, We are both from rich families and Our parents are kewl with it. Tell me what to do.

Answer 1

If you guys both love each other then why not Just make sure you are both ready for that commitment

Answer 2

The only one who can tell u what to do is you
with advise from your parents. Remember u
are a minor with a minor,ur son, so u need to
first finish getting an education and wait before
u get married for the moment as since u are
rich u will have the time to get an education and
for someone to take care of ur son while u are
in school. Marriage can wait; as u and ur son's
dad already have a bond. Once you graduate
and you and him still have the feelings towards
each other then you can think on tying the knot,
but I would not rush into marriage right now.
However it is ur decision as to what you should
do as once u r married u and him are committ-
ed to ur son and to each other.

Answer 3

Well you been together for a long time and you got a child and you still love each other so thats good if you feel like you not going to want to experience other things without him then dont but if you sure about this then yes i know someone who got married at 16 and now shes 26 and she doesnt regret it.

Answer 4

You should marry only if you two love each other and not let anyone tell you different. But stop and think you are only 16 now and in a few years you might not feel like you do now and where will you be then.

Answer 5

well you just answered your own question. Marriage is a major committment, granted you made a child together, but you are both still young. You don't want to get married at 16 and divorced at 17. If you want to get married to end the stigma of having children out of wedlock, then go ahead and get married. But if your relationship is working well without marriage, don't rush it.

Answer 6

i dont think marrying him would make having a 5 year old at 16 years old any eaiser, your young for one, just because you have a child doesnt mean, get married, not at all. you have the rest of your life, to get married, maybe you should finish school, focus on being the best you can for you child, and not worrying about gettin married at such a young age, cause frankly, getting married isnt providing a damn thing. Good luck, sweetie.

Answer 7

its too early to get married your are only 16 .you dont know if he is the love of your life.i was married at 16, now i wish that i did not made that mistake, see i been with him since i was 15 now i am 28 years and we have 3 kids together ,he cheated on me so many times i lost count ,be with him but dont get married please,i dont want you to make the same mistake as me

Answer 8

Whoaaaaaaaaaa at 11????

Anyway, just keep the kid. You're pretty rich and your parents are cool with it. That's all that matters.

Hey, I'm 16 too!!

Answer 9

I think you should wait to get married. I think you should realize that having a rich family will only get you so far. What else are you going to do?

Answer 10

Interesting, in another question you answered that you "lost it" when you were 12 to a Jerk. Immaculate conception? Interesting way to get everyone excited though. Props for the well conceived question!