Ok, I am dating 2 guys right now! This is something I am not completily comfortable with but i took the advice I got from you guys and did it anyways! They are always jealous of each other and I know I am going to have to make a decision soon or I will lose them both! But I still can’t decide! I like them both for different reasons! One is the nice guy that will never do anything wrong and the other is the “Bad Boy” that I am always attracted to!
So my questions are how do you make a decision that you might come to regret? And what would you do if you were me?
2006-11-19 07:43:34 · 16 answers · asked by Holly Ann 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first you need to make a list (honestly take a piece of paper an d make one) of two guys and what are good and bad things about them.You also need to understand that if they both jealous of each other,your choice can possibly be dangerous for you,so think about their qualities,and how they treat you.However,be prepared to drop them both,because maybe there is someone outthere who you will be attracted to and they would treat you good. Good luck :)
2006-11-19 07:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by cutiedash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. I date men at the same time too, and I see no problem with it. Of course, I rarely tell them there is someone else in the picture, too. It seems to me you would have regrets either way or at least you will always be asking yourself "What if I made the wrong decision?" Babe, drop them both and just be friends with both.... or drop them both entirely. Perhaps you can find someone who is a combination of the two... sounds like they both fulfill you in different ways, but neither can satisfy you.
2006-11-19 07:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Audania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for the nice guy. Cause he'll make sure of making you happy. Bad boys are always bad, you cannot change them and I don't think there are positive things about dating a bad boy. And if it doesn't work with any of the two, don't worry, there are millions of men out there
2006-11-19 07:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A number of years ago, I married a "bad boy". Within a couple of months, he started being bad to me, physically and emotionally. That marriage lasted 3 years. Several years (and a lot of lessons} later I met a really good guy. We became best friends. We just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary. He is still my best friend. Moral: bad boys are fun for the short term. Good guys are good for life.
2006-11-19 07:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by dbrhnrrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are but Choose the one who you would spend the rest of your life with, whether you do or not. You know what you want out of life so choose the one who fits into your chosen life better. Either way someone will get hurt. Good Luck
2006-11-19 07:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is either one of them supposed to trust you. If they already know about one another. That is a bad deal for you I think that no one wins in this situation it's a 3 way loss.. Trust is important in a relationship and if a man thinks he could possibly be disposable to you that relationship won't last. sorry for the negative answer but i have seen this happen.
2006-11-19 07:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at their pros and cons and tally them up.
If your heart wants the "Bad Boy" then you will never be content without having him.
On the other hand, IF you get the "Bad Boy" you may never be happy with how he treats you.
YOUR call. Good luck. Pops
2006-11-19 07:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for the guy you love most. it looks like to me that you like the bad boy. well try to make him into a good boy just like the other guy. ur only trying to go out with the good guy also because he's just a gd boy. maybe not cuz u love him.
2006-11-19 07:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow ur heart and if it dosent work out with one go to the other. Hope u get the advice u want
2006-11-19 07:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with your heart. I don't think it was fair for you to be dating two guys at the same time.
2006-11-19 09:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋