because of domestic violence
2006-11-19 07:12:29 · 9 answers · asked by lilbadazz012004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
this is a pretty serious question you are asking and there are alot of details missing so let me start with this and see if it helps you. I also grew up in domestic violence, my step father to be specific and back then (early 80's and up until my junior year of school '86) they didn't have much in the way of resources for help, but.... fortunately for you today they do. I don't know where you are from so it is hard to put up a link for you but I will try.
this one is a national hotline so it doesn't matter where you are you can call and certainly if you are in immediate danger call 911, if they have stuff on file for the individual who's doing it (the abuse), it makes it faster and easier for them to protect you or the individual going through it.
NO ONE SHOULD BE HURTING ANYONE EVER!!!!!!!
Here is the link:
http://www.ndvh.org/
I hope this helps you and remember none of this is your fault unless you are doing the abusing.
Seek help for you and the others involved in the situation, you may be scared but.... is it worse to continue in the abuse or do something to protect you and your loved ones. Be strong!!!!
You are not alone, there are so many people out there going through this. GET HELP FAST!!!!
I did. I was 17. I talked with a state trooper who got an agency involved and I was able to leave home. I was popular at school, I was a varsity cheerleader, I had a ton of friends and yet I gave it all up to go to a new home, new school and make new friends, all in my Senior year of high school!!
I looked at it this way.... after graduation it's a whole new life start anyway.... so what's one year earlier.
I'm so thankful I helped myself when the people I depended on most couldn't protect me.
Good luck sweetie, let me know if I can be of any more assistance.
2006-11-19 07:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by dribble 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all it depends on the domestic violence going on. In any case hate is a very bitter thing to carry around in side yourself. You need to get help for this. go to someone that can help work this out. you cant go through this alone. but dont carry hate around inside yourself. i did for ten years and it just keeps hurting even when its over.
2006-11-19 15:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is too vague. Are you the one being abused? Or is it a parent being abused?
If you are a minor, go to Child Protective Services at the Department of Human Services; tell a counselor or favorite teacher at school that you need help.
If you're an adult, GET OUT OF THE HOUSE BEFORE YOU GET KILLED.
No one should stay in a home with someone who is violent. There are places you can go for help and for safety.
2006-11-19 15:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick them out or move out yourself. Call the cops if there's a domestic violence issue.
2006-11-19 15:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by Justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. If the person is your spouse then you should get a divorce. If the person is someone else and you are witness to this abuse then you should talk to the abused person and tell them they dont have to put up with it and try to help them get help. Sometimes people in this situation need a little push toward the right direction. They are scared to do it on their own and need all of the support they can get.
2006-11-19 15:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by April C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live with my mom, just recently actually.
I'm 27, married with 4 kids.
TALK ABOUT HELL!!!
It's pretty bad, all jokes aside.
She's very mean and sometimes has violent tendencies, not hitting etc..but mentally.
We moved her to help my parents financially and gave up our house and now we're pretty much f'ing stuck here.
I would rather be a hobo to live here, seriously.
I try to make my own private "hideaways" but I get found by my kids and HER!
2006-11-19 15:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cucking Fracked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like pulling a tight rope,some think has to give,one of you must be in a position where you can move out,just find out who,its all ways nice to stay around comfort could that maybe the reason??
2006-11-19 15:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd get the hell out and move somewhere else away from him/her and to a place where he/she wouldn't find me
2006-11-19 16:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from them .....whatever it takes .
2006-11-19 15:19:37 · answer #9 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋