my ex-boy friend asked me for marriage,and i was waiting his demand long time ago. But he came late, coz im already with another person for 2months now and i do like him a lot and he is thinking seriously to get engaged too. i really don t know what to do. im very confused. i still have some feeling towards my ex, but ...well i don t know! pls i want to know ur suggestions. thank u!
2006-11-19 07:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump them and I am serious about this.
1st of all you broke up with your ex. If he was the one you would have stayed together and worked out whatever it was that seperated you.
2nd of all if you were serious about this 2nd boyfriend.. you would be confused and asking which to pick. You would have send bf #1 on his way.. since you were in love with #2.
I think its time to be single again.. and find bf #3... and then commit to them. Once it feels right.
2006-11-19 07:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Vanchaser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old boyfriend may be asking out of jealousy.Once you tell him you'll marry him that will end your new relationship plus you're hurting the one you're with now.Your ex may not even marry you he may just want to break your current relationship up. Also remember why you broke up. The new boyfriend is at hand so give him a chance it may be even the best thing you could do for yourself. Believe in "karma" what goes around comes back around. You leave a good thing to go backwards hurting an innocent person,then the one you went to will do you the same way-no marriage from the ex-only hurt.
2006-11-19 07:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you not make any commitments until you're sure of your feelings. For one thing, you don't know what your ex boyfriend's motives are. Did he suddenly come back to you and propose because you're seeing someone else, or was his delay in asking you to marry him in the first place, because he wanted to better himself, to make a good living in order to provide for you, and now he's accomplished that? You have to weigh these things in your mind, and carefully consider the circumstances. And this new guy, you haven't ;known for very long, so you need to get better acquainted with him before you decide to spend the rest of your life with him. So it's best to wait until you decide what is going to be best for you, and ultimately for the one you do decide to pick. I wish you luck. You might try praying about it, too.
2006-11-19 07:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your ex blew it by taking too long to commit. If you still love him and he's ready to commit now, go for it. You have more history with him. Your new feelings for the new guy are just that new a wonderful feelings. I guess you'd also need to weigh how much time was spent with the other guy versus the small amount of time spent with the new one. Go with your heart!
2006-11-19 07:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get engaged to the new person if you still have feelings for your ex. and plus, 2 months isn't long enough to be thinking about marriage.
but don't get engaged to your ex at the moment..it sounds like he's just trying to get you back after you broke up. think about why you broke up and if you decide to get back together with him, don't get engaged to him right away, because you never know.
listen to your heart (cheesy but true) whoever you truly want to be with is the one you should be with...but maybe you shouldn't marry him yet.
2006-11-19 07:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by fireflower413 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really good with relationships because ive been through a lot and ive read a lot of things about relationships. My best advice to you is follow your heart because it knows best. Pray for what God wants for you. If he wants you with your ex go back to him. If he wants you with your current boyfriend stay with him. God's answers may not come soon enough but they will come and he does have a plan for you. =)
hope this helped.
2006-11-19 07:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by brittany lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your ex than there is a reason he is your ex. He lost his chance and now it is too late. If you really like your new guy than stick with him. If he keeps on coming to you, tell him NO you are already with someone and he missed his chance to say yes. Good luck.
2006-11-19 07:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tempest6768 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are confused you may still be in love with your ex boyfriend,??
considder that ,otherwise you would have told him imediatly to take a hike and leave you alone because you now have a new love.
better do some deep thinking before you continue with anything
only the truth will suffice in fairness to all concerned.
2006-11-19 07:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you are happy with this new guy, then stay with him, as for your ex tell him he had his chance and blew it.. or you can take a step back and figure this out with in yourself. make a list of the cons and pros of each guy, and do some soul searching.. Good Luck
2006-11-19 07:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that u should follow your heart and do what u feel is right whatever u do make sure u don`t feel pressured
2006-11-19 07:12:39 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Ms.Page~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋