Yesterday was my one year anniversary with boyfriend. We didnt't get to see eachother at all n i don't think he even got me anything. n this is bothering me cuz its not what i expected. I expected for us to go out or at least be with eachother and get a small gift or some flowers or w.e But none of this happened. and now it just really bothers me since its suppose to be a special day n it wasn't. also yesterday i was thinking about when i see other couples at school have there 1 yr the girl gets flowers n all of that n they talk about how they got this from there boyfriend, and it made me even more sad cuz i didnt get to have that or even be with my boyfriend. I'm not upset like i was yesterday but it still kind of bothers me. Am i wrong for feeling this way?
2006-11-19 06:01:53 · 8 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok...I went through the same thing. My honey knew it was out one year ann. and he also didn't get me anything. Of course I was upset, but you know what, I let it go. I mean flowers die, candy gets eaten, presents get lost (especially rings). As long you both appreciate being together. If it still bothers you, you can hint to him like "hey honey...where's my ann. gift?" Oh yeah...it is completly normal to feel this way.
A.L.
2006-11-19 06:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok for this to bother you. He needed to acknowledge the day somehow. I understand you completely that is why I would have called him or showed up and gave him a card or something to acknowledge the day so he would feel bad for not doing anything for you.
2006-11-19 14:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have every right to feel that way cause that's obvisously really important to u and u probably feel like he doesn't care about the relationship like u do.
2006-11-19 14:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally the guys don't remember the dates as girls do, May be he might have forgetten. Better forgive him. He must have got lost on your beauti and forgot everything else.
2006-11-19 14:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by DIm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No id be peed off as well....dont bother making any effort with him...
2006-11-19 14:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm . Go aSk him what`s qoing on. && everything.maybe he has some other important family issue going. qive him time.
2006-11-19 14:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by lala.fxckuhunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumped...
2006-11-19 14:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Yasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not wrong...id be pretty pissed actually
2006-11-19 14:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by getn_awy_w_mrdr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋