It's got to be. NO such thing as a "soul mate" otherwise mine could be in China or Siberia and I would never find her. Love is a compromise on what is available. And this could prove the fact that LOTS of girls can be a guy's "soul mate" and vice versa. ---This isn't easy to explain so I hope you donot misunderstand what I am asking.
Juzt give me your thoughts on this.
2006-11-19 05:55:54 · 13 answers · asked by RED-CHROME 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all about fate.
The one you spend the rest of your life with is your soulmate.
It's not just some guy you dated or some random person you have sex with. That's not what soulmate means.
It is the person who fulfills the other half of you.
The person who truly understands and loves you.
The one who shares that friendship, love, compatibility, intimacy bond.
Just because you haven't found your soulmate yet doesn't mean they don't exist.
Have faith in God. He has a plan for you and will bring that someone into your life in His own time.
2006-11-19 05:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From ur point of angle you may be right.
There is only Love and it has feelings not a structure. Not true or false love. They r ur feelings. When you can forget everything in presence of a third person, its called love. The other feelings u may get later ( lust Etc., ) according to the beheavour of the 3rd person.
For example: If u look at a small girl, you may like her and her actions but u donot feel like enjoying sex.
where as when u look at a teen aged or middle aged femalewho may be good looking in physic, you may like her but inner feelings may guide to get advanced.
or when u look at a elderly people u may like them but u donot get such feeling.
It all depends on how u take it or how u communicate with others. or how do u get compatible with others.
2006-11-19 15:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love you say;; true;;;But it is not true when you have to use the word TRUE with the word LOVE.as it has a very large meaning ..love is not meant only for a girl or boy it is a universal term.Love is not that you always find the partner for the life to spend together and live together.Love is still exist ,if two have not succeeded to live together and it is eternal,You never know that where are you;;;;whether in the heart or in the eyes . ; of person of the kind of the ;;;What has been compromised or whoa t is gained by you.SO accept with full of joy Never say;;;; Compromised;;;;\\\\? ok.
2006-11-19 07:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by c-squre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is such thing as true love, but your right in saying true love is definitely about compromise...all relationships need compromise. If you have a soulmate it doesn't matter where they are if it is true love...and yes we all have more then one soulmate, it just depends on which person you find first that make you feel that way and if you love them and they you its all good.
2006-11-19 10:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a state of being. To find true love you have to love yourself. The information you have provided is one aspect of love, you are talking about romantic love, a boy girl relationship. When you talk about love in a global way it is a different meaning.
Lets narrow it down to love in a relationship. Love has to be strong, love when it is needy then it is not love, it is purely a need that you seek to fulfil. love can be real love when there are no needs involved. you dont need the other to make you happy, you dont need the other to buy you or provide for you. If you can be selfsufficient in every way then it is possible to find true love. In love two people grow, in love when the other grows there is not jealousy, one is happy. In love when someone accepts you, you feel happy, because the other recieved the love as a gift not as a demand. When two people meet in this state of mind, when two people share their happiness in life then love is happiness, the relationship is of soul mates. When two needy people are in relationship then they are like beggers standing in front of eachother begging, i want this and i want that. Love has no religion, love has no class, love has no caste, love has no color, love has not boundries.
If there is no love in your heart, then you can never find love, probably you are wearing the lense of caste, class, religion, color and language, remove your lenses, and you will find love right near you.
love is not in the color of the skin, or body, look beyond the body, look for the soul of the person, and there is love hidden. look for love with your heart, not with your mind. mind is everythign what the world teaches you, in the matters of the heart dont bring the mind.
2006-11-19 07:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UR WRONG, SORRY. I AM THE LIVING PROOF OF THAT! I MET MY HUSBAND A LITTLE MORE THAN A YEAR AGO AND I INSTANTLY KNEW THAT HE WAS THE ONE!!! THEORETICALLY WE WOULD NEVER, EVER MEET, PROBABLY. HE'S FROM USA, I AM FROM BULGARIA- 6000 MILES AWAY FROM EACH OTHER. HE IS 55, I AM 26! AND WE MET IN A STRIP CLUB! MAYBE U DON'T BELIEVE ME NOW, BUT SOME DAY U WILL KNOW I WAS RIGHT! WHAT IS MEANT TO BE WILL BE, NO MATTER OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES. YOU SHOULD LISTEN TO UR HEART, COS IF U DON'T RECOGNISE UR SOULMATE, U MAY NEVER HAVE THE CHANCE AGAIN. WE BOTH HAVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER!!
2006-11-19 06:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is such thing as a soul mate..............I got minee and I did not even look for him ..............I am married to my best friend he used to give me advice on how to hookup with the guys I gave him advice on what women liked........and remember for 7yrs we were just friends with no other feelings for each other but truee friendship..............and then all of a sudden my boyfriend that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with for 4yrs left me for another women and he broke upo with his girlfriend of 2yrs in the next 3days........now we were crazy about our partners and did everything to get back with them but it was no use.....all of a sudden we were hanging with each other cuz we had no one else to hang out with....
we never found out when we had fallen in love and ppl kept saying to us u two are ment to be with each other and finally we saw the big picture and strarted officially dating we have been married for 5yrs and going very strong he was my best friend and now my lifepartner and also my soul mate.....
when you look for love u won't find it let love come to u
2006-11-19 06:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by sosoqueen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"True Love" is that U accept the love for what she is...U don't see bad part of Ur love.."soul mate" means both of souls being together..they don't care where they are,what they are..trust into the hearts..It's just your luck..U can't find her..still she is around u and u asking for the thoughts about love..means ur love is there for her...just accept this fact..
2006-11-19 06:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with eveybody said except abcdef. U do not look for love you find love, and you find you soulmate. It is fate. GOD works its ways to put the two together. When it is time to meet, GOD will find a way. If your soulmate is in another country GOD will find a way to bring your soulmate to you. You just find the person. And you just know.
2006-11-19 09:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by bbluckylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obvisously some one has hurt u badly and u don't believe in it anymore but one day u'll find the one person u can't see yoself without and when that happens there's no way u can't believe in true love.
2006-11-19 06:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋