I am not sure how to ask this question so here goes nothing. I like a guy who just wants to be friends. I like this guy a little over the friendship boundry line. I get erges to hold his hand, hug him, kiss him on the cheak (Not on the mouth), rest my head on his shoulder or chest. Just little physical contacts like that. I am not interested in having sex with him at all for some reason. I just want to be with him because I feel so confortable around him. It feels like I can trust him completely for whatever reason. So far, he just thinks that he is too young for me. I'm 30, he's 22. Other than that, it looks and sounds like he likes me so far.
2006-11-19 05:52:36 · 10 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just stay friends first.. and let's see what will happen... *winks*
2006-11-19 05:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by -'UpEnDi'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All those urges are not just a little like.kisses on the cheek leads to the mouth.At 30 i think you already know that.Stop playing games and tell him exactly what you want.He may be for it or he may be frightened off,I don't know but you'll know where you both stand if you get your feelings out in the open.Then listen to what he has to say,and pay attention to how he reacts then and in the near future.His actions will tell you more than what comes out of his mouth.
2006-11-19 14:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What 22 year old man wants to just "be friends" and have you all over him all the time. You're old enough to know what guys are all about--no matter what age. It's either you want him only as a friend or more than a friend. You can't have both although it would be nice...
2006-11-19 13:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Pretti Poodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like you're doing everything but the sex...so i'm thinking he's probably more than a friend...i don't go crawling all over my male friends' bodies...so you probably need to just date him
2006-11-19 13:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by BOOYAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him....But if you dont want a sexual realshionship maybe you should be like good mates...and see what happens you might see him in that kind of light!
2006-11-19 13:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like you but it doesn't sound like he "likes you likes you"...if you get my drift. He's trying not to hurt your feelings but probably wishes that you'd stop making him feel uncomfortable.
2006-11-19 13:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u guys r perfict!
go for it good luck=)
2006-11-19 13:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by The voice of reason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as far as you want to go ...
I am sure you can get him into bed...
2006-11-19 13:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow...
the age part somehow .. surprised me...
Well.. yea.. most guys will think that ... about how girls are older then them and stuff...
so... hmMm.. take care...
2006-11-19 13:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ching y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.......just try using some self control
2006-11-19 13:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by non-curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋