it's really hard to say no when shes ready to go, we where married for 13 yrs, I have custody of our boys and here we are 2 yrs later and no real comitments I want to say it's ok untell I get serious with someone, the x and i don't speak much or much of it but it happens. alot sometimes and less others. the kids don't know because their always asleep. I do like having sex but thats it with her other than c.s. what should i do?
2006-11-19 05:42:58 · 14 answers · asked by myworld2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you both want it, do it. You aren't hurting her if she cums for it.
2006-11-19 05:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Well its hard to imagine why a divorce took place. You're treating the mother of your children this way. It doesn't matter that they're asleep. (by the way, think they don't know? b.s.) Shame on you. You know she needs help. Its really hard to say no when she's ready to go. Borrowed that from a line in a sleaze boy song didn't you?
You have custody of your sons, oh great, you get to teach them how to treat women like garbage.
You should help your wife get help. At the very least you should speak to her when she is sober about this behavior having to stop. Either get back together or cut this out. She obviously still loves you, and you are obviously still a louse.
2006-11-19 05:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your other question said you were lookin for a date on here...well if you want a date, i would stop admitting that you are snooging the ex missus...that'll really turn a gal off FAST... i think that is a really disgusting way to live your life and what example are you setting for your sons...to use women and be a man whore?
eww gross
take a shower, keep your pants zipped, and wait for a real lady!
2006-11-19 05:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by BOOYAH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any gentleman would take her in make up a bed and watch over her as he had before whether or not you 2 are still keeping the sex going only a pig would take advantage of this situation
2006-11-19 06:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Chi-Girli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's drunk so she might not be stable minded at the time. Ask her again for a quickie when she's able to think straight. But if you don't wanna then make sure you practice it safe. Just in case.
2006-11-19 05:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Callie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No commitment sex from a drunk woman and you're asking us what to do? What the hell has happened to American men?
What should you do. Get a vasectomy and always wear a condum that way you don't get her pregnant and she doesn't give you something.
2006-11-19 05:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, Cause it is not good to make love or sex when drunk because it may harm ur or ur wife's internal organs . So dont do when drunk.
2006-11-19 06:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Adi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not the one using her if she comes to you! Cut her off and tell her your are not married anymore and this is very inappropriate. If you still love her then get back together and that will be that...........
2006-11-19 05:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are both consenting, I don't see a problem. Just be safe and don't bring any more kids into this situation.
2006-11-19 05:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't.
As you said, you are 'using her for sex'. It's wrong to 'use' anyone, even if they consent to being used.
Even if you justify it because she is 'using' you, too.
Wrong is wrong.
2006-11-19 05:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
One day she may give you more than sex....think about it...
2006-11-19 21:38:56 · answer #11 · answered by Dirtydog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋