well, I am a real-life 35-year-old virgin. I'm not a nerd, I'm just never met a woman who wanted me. Is there something wrong with all of it? is there something wrong with me? I was saving myself for marriage, when I was younger, but at this point I'm really wanting to find a relationship and get in touch with a part of myself that is unexpressed and unexplored.
2006-11-19 05:40:18 · 17 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are probably going to hear about it from the men but as a woman I see nothing wrong with it. You obviously have high standards for yourself and for who you want to be the love of your life and there is nothing wrong with it at all. You said you have been waiting for a long time for a relationship well you go out there and find that girl and give her the time of her life and I hope that she is the one for you good luck!
2006-11-19 05:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would like to say a big CONGRATULATIONS! I'm glad there are still people out there "saving themselves" I was beginning to think I was just about the only one left. Don't back down there's nothing wrong with you. Be patient she could be just around the next corner.
2006-11-19 13:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by fishes 4 ducks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude..im 21yrs old..n just got laid. I'm not a nerd either. I was a highschool athlete..MVP n all that. Here's what..ur probably just shy. U need to put yourself in situations that allow for things to happen. HOW does staying at home on a friday night help you get in contact with a girl? Dude..try going out for a walk..u up your chances of getting laid. Here's what I did.. i met my gf through a friend. we talked..n talked on the phone after we met..n we just clicked. Then we started talkin about sex..n i pretended i wasnt a virgin n all that. n we did it.
So my suggestion to you is. If you allow yourself to be in communication to a girl..for even a hello..u up your chances of getting laid than just sitting at home. At home..the chances of you getting laid is pretty much nil...unless someone gets lost n asks u for directions..u invite them in n it turns into "Girls Gon Wild: Home Edition". Put yourself out there. Go to a library..talk..dont be afraid. U shouldnt be thinking about how you may get laid by this or that girl. Just small steps. talk with girls. It's like ur saying..I wanna become a doctor..but u turn down college after high school. If u wanna become a doctor..u gotta study..gotta go to school..research. Put urself in the situation where something can lead to what you want. YOU CAN DO IT BRO!
2006-11-19 13:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by mahjongdong 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
U should defiantly get out there and date! I am sure there is nothing wrong wit u.... It's just they can't see the true U... Look at how u put yourself out there... Wemon can be harsh though... and really self absorbed wit guy's who want something serious...There is a woman out there who wants u...Just look harder and U will find her...
2006-11-19 13:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should of put your real picture on and we could of answered accordingly. Some people just take longer to find that one special person. You can always have sex now if you are tired of waiting, tons of women give it away free.
2006-11-19 13:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry, i know a 53 year old virgin who still lives at home with her parents.
I do believe that sexual intimacy helps us grow as people, and i do think its time you let go of the idea of saving yourself for marriage (however sweet that is), and just go out there and experience life to its full potential... good luck!
2006-11-19 13:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by He moonwalked on my <3 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know a woman who is one that is 43
2006-11-19 13:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by kayef57 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might just be the next 40 year old virgin, should i congrat you or feel bad for you?
2006-11-19 13:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by lumi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Open the door, stick in, slam the door! If the hinges on the door has been destroyed, you are ready. Go hunting.
2006-11-19 13:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by ranietsd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you ned to hurry up I dont knock you for that but u have a long time of milk to come when you go for it u are going to explore.
2006-11-19 13:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by foxy_sexy_lesbian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋