I have a friend who died in a tragic way, i oftern visit her grave, do you think she will know i have been to see her?
also i once had a real vivid dream about her, do you think that means anything?
2006-11-19 05:39:16 · 16 answers · asked by red devil 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Your friend knows and is with you even when you don't know about it. I lost my Dad a few weeks ago... I know He is with me all the time. I know so and I believe so... They are in a better world now... trust me... Best regards,
B
2006-11-19 05:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by bogdangaszak 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, with me being an athiest and paranormal skeptic, I really don't know. What I do know is that believing that the deceased can still be aware of your actions is comforting, and when I visited my grandfather's grave I couldn't help but feel a strange sense of connection. It could be just a trick of the mind, or maybe spirits do exist. Who knows. =(
What I do know is that your dreams can tell you more about yourself than anything can. I discovered what my worst fears are, and what I cherish most through my dreams. (My worst fear is having my diary read, what I cherish most are my friends and family.) Dreams are thought by some to be your subconcious, so it's really you in your rawest form. You aren't seeing/hearing/smelling or thinking about anything in real life, so your brain uses what's already there to make a dream.
I believe that having a real vivid dream about her shows that you really had a good friendship with her, and you wish she hadn't died. You wish that she was still around so you could cherish more moments with her, and you almost can't believe that she's gone.
Hope this helped!
2006-11-19 06:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Koko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course she knows i think its great you can go there and visit her, she was obviously a very dear friend and you need to be somewhere you feel she is, if that's at her grave then go. dreams are often vivid about people and tell us information we need to know, it could be very valuable.
2006-11-19 10:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by Tiamat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she is dead, how can she know?
I think it gives you peace of mind or comfort to be there, and I am sure that if your friend felt anything she would be happy enough with that.
Overall I think that you are just affected by her loss.
In the end you will move on and the dreams will stop.
2006-11-19 05:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, being dead she'd not know. I personally don't believe in life after death though and believe that the concept is just to comfort people.
Having a dream about her is understandable. Visiting her grave so often, you'd think about her and you are prone to dreaming about the things on your mind.
2006-11-19 05:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Eden 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, her spirit is all around you. Why don't you check out Mary Ann the Ghost Buster on the web. The TV show "Ghost Whisperer" is patterned after her life experiences.
2006-11-19 05:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Darby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe she will know. A friend of mine who had counselling from CRUSE was told that the dead communicate with us through our dreams. Be comforted by your friend visiting you xxx
2006-11-19 05:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by starlet108 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is wonderful you visit her grave. I cant say whether she would know it because i cant assume that. But pray for her!
2006-11-19 05:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that she was there and heard every word and she was trying to tell you she heard you and that she was telling you through your dreams wish the best and hope i helped.
2006-11-19 06:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure she will know. If you are religious, then when and if you go to heaven, you will be confronted by her, and you two will reunite old times. You will be good friends, and she will know. Just pray to her, and see what happens.
2006-11-19 05:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jonas A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋