I starting dating him after we slow danced at a school dance. He was so sweet, so I asked him if he wanted to dance again. Then, I asked him out. He is a sweet christian boy.. Please don't tell me that I am too young. I am a christain and I love God. I am not going to have sex until I am married! I appricate people for who they are. I just don't know if it is normal for me to date a dude 2 grades lower than me!! Thanks!!
2006-11-19 05:28:54 · 14 answers · asked by kels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course it's okay because when i was in junior high i always saw people like that infact its totally normal so keep your head up age is nothin but a number!!!and if any one makes u feel uncomfortable about it it's probably becuz they dnt have a life of there own and they probably want a 6th grader lookin thier way but it dosent happen!
2006-11-19 05:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 7 1/2 years younger than I and we have been married for 21 years but I did not start dating him until he was 19 3/4.
Go to Books Christian and use their Search button. Change All Products to Books in the left box and then put in the word Dating in the right box and then click on Search. You will come up with 357 results. These may be a lot to sift through but I really like God's Design for Christian Dating by Greg Laurie and Boundaries in Dating: Making Dating Work by Henry Cloud
Getting It Right: Dating, His Way from the first "Hello" by Tim Baker
Boy Meets Girl by Joshua Harris
2006-11-19 05:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may answer your question:
I teach at a junior-senior high school with grades 7-12 in the same building. Many years ago one of my 9th grade students (girl) fell for a 7th grade student (boy). They had a lot in common and were in several clubs together. They dated all through school. The girl graduated two years before the boy, but they still were devoted to each other. The never had relations the entire time they dated. The boy finally graduated and they were married last summer. They are absolutely meant to be together.
I know this because the school is small and I am good friends with the students involved as well as their parents.
2006-11-19 05:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. Some people may not accept the situation because you are young and they may think its weird...mostly your peers. But why should there be any difference since 40yr. old women date or marry 35 year old men...or old men with a lot younger wives? Society isn't what should make you decide what to do or how to do it. If it doesn't violate God's law, don't fret over it and follow your heart. Good luck.
2006-11-19 05:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by snowtiger30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say it happens alot because most of the time you see girls going with boys older than them because they or more mature but if you really like the boy it shouldnt matter what ppl think because for one they aint u nor the boy I know wouldnt go with any 6th graders at my school cuz they are childish but he fulfills you thats good enough
2006-11-19 05:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by ~Kiki~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw girl! I'm going through the same thing except I'm 19, but two years older than my guy. First of all, don't listen to what others have to say about it. You are such a strong and smart girl to wait until you are married, I'm a Christian as well and I am saving myself until marriage as well. Keep your faith and strength and may God bless you...and if you like him...go ahead and like him! :)
2006-11-19 05:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not that awkward of dating someone who's younger then you. I got alots of friend dating guys of different grade level. If he's a sweet, &&` everything you should qive him a chance.
2006-11-19 05:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by lala.fxckuhunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r my new best friend! I am just as old as you and feel the same way! Coolness! to answer ur question, its ok if you think its ok
2006-11-19 05:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by XxXTaRaXxX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure.if you like each other than go 4 it!!
2006-11-19 05:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it's kinda weird that you're in 8th grade and he is in 6th. but if you really like him it shouldn't matter.
2006-11-19 05:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋