Okay, my friends is really pretty, i mean gorgeous, and shes kind of chubby, but once she became skinny would you go out with her? even though she wasnt always skinny, she wants to know thanks
2006-11-19 05:09:30 · 20 answers · asked by shopper_ae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea, and it is not me, im fine with my weight
2006-11-19 05:15:26 · update #1
also, keep in mind my friend is only 14, and guys our age dont really like chubby girls
2006-11-19 05:16:18 · update #2
sure why not. tell your friend to email me mafike1962@yahoo.com
2006-11-19 05:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by oldjr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend worries too much about looks. Anyone who would date someone only cause they are pretty or skinny or anything, doesn't have much character and they aren't worth anything anyways. She needs more self respect. A person being chubby, fat, obese, whatever, doesn't make them less of a person. She will be the same inside no matter how her outside looks. Don't judge on looks so much, you might miss a great mate.
2006-11-19 13:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
to me you cant judge a female by how much they weigh. sorry but thats like stupid. cause its like this, if a girl is skinny and gorgeous, she could be the wrong one for you to like. but since the girl was chubby, she has a lot more to be sensitive about. in fact, her emotions will be unconditional for the guy who falls in love with her simply because she never a guy to love her like that. You cant judge a woman by her appearence. just becuase she may be overweight, doesnt mean she isnt right for anyone, in fact she may be the ONE for you. even though you think its never going to happen.
2006-11-19 13:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would go out with her friendship should not be a competition you should be proud of her and yourself. Think about how she must have felt when going out with you and she was chubby, did she go out with you. Go out have fun and please remember confidence is better than beauty and attracts men more than anything else. So be confident in yourself and in your friend. Have fun, and don't let changes get in the way. YOu will both go through many changes in your life, marriage, pregnancy, old age and let me tell you there is nothing better than having a best friend along for this journey. Best to both of you.
2006-11-19 13:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Pearl N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, the reason skinny is in is because girls like skinny, guys like chubby, not fat, but chubby
2006-11-19 13:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by nancythemysterysolver123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men like girls with meat on their bones. Some men don't find skinny to be attractive. She should keep herself active and wait for a guy who likes her for who she is. Don't try to be skinny, just go for healthy and fit with exercise and healthy meals.
2006-11-19 13:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skinny should not be your friend's objective. If she's chubby, so be it as long as she eats healthy and gets lots of exercise. Real men want curvy & feminine.
2006-11-19 13:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she didn't get to skinny. Most men like women with a little meat on their bones.
2006-11-19 13:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If looks are all that important, then it's a shallow relationship indeed. It's what's in the head, heart and, the mind that makes or breaks any relationship, not the body.
2006-11-19 13:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by kamikaze_4021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her no if u wouldnt date her now. U cant just date someone cause they skinny. Its the person not the body
2006-11-19 13:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by luv_da_8balls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does'nt matter about her size. I think guys would get turned off if all she thought about was dieting. If she has a great personailty, that is what counts. Looks will not keep a relationship going.
2006-11-19 13:17:34 · answer #11 · answered by sticky J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋