2006-11-19 05:09:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let the time heal.. no matter what you do, when it is still not your time to recover, then you will not recover... and it is also up to you...how much you have loved her will matter so much...just don't push yourself to recover quick because you'll end up pretending you have recovered...
2006-11-19 05:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by -'UpEnDi'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not sad...the majority of us have been through it. First of all, that person obviously wasn't the one for you, so thank them for stepping out of the way for the right person to make their way into your life. Then think about it- now you get to take the time to look inside yourself and figure out what mistakes you made and what you did right and what you learned from the relationship. Now you can know what you will and will not accept during the next one. Hurt doesn't last always. It's gonna take time, but take it one day at a time. I know you don't want to continue to be heartbroken. Smile everyday; keep yourself busy. Do things that you never did before. Make yourself happy, so that if it happens again, you will be stronger.
2006-11-19 05:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry......that old cliche time is the answer. Doesnt help.I know! You cant force it to go away. If its a relationship breakup dont do what everyone usually says about finding someone else! Its just rebound and not fair on the new person in your life! Just sit it out and you'll get over it in time. Good luck!
2006-11-19 05:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by enigma64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Its hard to get over someone that has left that you felt in love with. But honestly the only thing that will heal the sadness that you feel is time. One thing Imight suggest is to hang out with the person and just be there for them if they ever need anything, that way they know that you are truly always there for them. In addition, treasure the memories that you had together and just be happy that had the time and memories that you did and that nobody can take those away from you now.
2006-11-19 05:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is very hard and takes lots of time to get over BUT think of it this way If you were either married to this person or a partner for a long time and had children then it happened it would be much worse. It just proves he/she did not love you as much as you loved him/her Don't think of pay back but get out into the world and enjoy the company you meet it is possible that you meet the true person of your dreams. It is possible I know from exp.
2006-11-19 05:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by M M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are feeling that your life is over and you will sit thinking about all the ggod times and crying over them but do yourself a favour think about the bad times and the times he hurt you and eventually anger will take over the sorrow and your anger will keep you strong. Just know what comes around goes around and he will ge his comeuppance, believe me in a years time you will wonder why you were so unhappy. This is the voice of experience talking, you will get through it and come out the other side stronger. Good luck hun!
2006-11-20 00:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and meet new people as soon as possible. Talk to freinds and family they will convince you that this person was a waste of time and that you deserve better.
Things happen for a reason. I am sure that the person you are meant to be with is just round the corner
2006-11-19 05:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and write all the things you liked about him. Then write down all the things you didnt like about him.
Weigh both lists and see if you are not ahead. He could be a screwball. Think positive. Everything in life happens because it was meant to be THAT way. Bounce back and hold your head high. You got lucky, not hurt!
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2006-11-19 05:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by Geneisheer4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not sad at all it happens to us all just try and get out with ure m8s family who ever just don't stay in the house crying forever coz it will make u feel worse
2006-11-19 07:26:41 · answer #9 · answered by burn baybee burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunni there is no right answer to that just try and get on with your life, take it one day at a time and remeber one thing you had a life before you met them and you will have that life again, im not saying that it is not gonna be hard but you will get throught it, also try not to think too much about it, just concentrate on having fun with your friends and family. good luck.
2006-11-19 06:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by LYDZII3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid it just takes time... there is no 'quick fix'.
Time is a great healer... and just generally trying to keep yourself busy so that every minute of every day isn't spent thinking about this person. Good luck! :-)
2006-11-19 05:12:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋