There is this guy I'm really into and I work with him. I always see him looking at me out of the corner of his eye and we talk and laugh alot. Not about anything in particular just different things. How could I subtly flirt with him or find out if he's interested?
2006-11-19 05:01:04 · 10 answers · asked by badreligionbeauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him out on a lunch break or after work... make a joke about if it's a date or not... and see how he reacts.
2006-11-19 05:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by harieta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO do not mix this work and pleasure,1 If you break up then you have to see him everyday, 2 What the hell do you want the other people to start talking about you for? 3 If you get a raise at work here s the talk from everybody else "well i guess shes doing the boss also thats why she got a raise" 4 All the male co workers will start this "The rumor has it shes a big hoe so dude go for it." 5. Have you given your 2 week notice yet? 6. And this is the real deal "Sexual Harrasment" will be thrown out the door if things dont go good for you and him.
A very good friend of mine once said to me "You dont sh*t Where you eat" meaning dont get involved with somebody at work cause one thing will break the deal and that is "MONEY"
2006-11-19 13:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Big Steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an opportunity to touch his hand or arm while talking, this seems to give the other person a sense of what you are trying to get across to them. Laugh alot, in a sublte way at things he says. Play with your lips or hair. Give him a wink or raise your eyebrows. Facial expression can really help you out. If all else fails, just ask him out for a coffee or other beverage. Hey its the 21st century. Woman ask men out alll the time. Good LUck:)
2006-11-19 13:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
offer to take him to lunch...in a friendly way...just be nonchalant about it because even though you make good eye candy for him...it doesn't mean he is totally on your trail. Because of the whole sexual harassment thing you need to be willing to change jobs if he takes it the wrong way. in other words...BE CAREFUL! what if you two date and then break up? Are you going to be able to face him every day after that?
2006-11-19 13:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mix work with personal stuff. It's not worth jeapodizing your job. Find out the policy about dating your employer has first.
2006-11-19 13:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by JS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be gutsy.. its something I regret not doing back in my younger days!! Ask him if he wants to hangout.. what is his passions.. what does he like to do.. watch football.. come watch football at your house.. get him in by what he loves!!
2006-11-19 13:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous Wife 24F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already is. Just let things happen by itself.
2006-11-19 13:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him who and what you really are like!
give him a piece of you and see how he reacts! women are great at that! go girl!
2006-11-19 13:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by *cutie with a bootie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casual body contact...
Stand very near to him...
2006-11-19 13:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not! Wait for his move or leave!
2006-11-19 13:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋