My ex boyfriend and I sat down and had a talk about what he did while we where dating.?

Question

He told me he slept with me best frined and right before we started talking about this I told him I wouldn't get mad, that was shocking and I did get mad b/c that really hurt. Was I wrong for getting mad and should I ask her about it b/c she is my best friend and she shouldn't do me this way. What do you think?

Answer 1

YOU ARE RIGHT TO BE MAD. FIND A BOYFRIEND AND A BEST FRIEND THAT YOU CAN TRUST!

Answer 2

no theirs nothing wrong with getting mad at that. I dont think she is a very good friend to be doing that. If you still want to be friends with her id talk to her and try to fix things up but it probably wont ever be as tight of a bond as you had before.You might not have the same level of trust you had that you had. Dont feel like you shouldnt have been upset over that, I think everyone in your situation would be too. I know how you feel. I hope things go well
=P ~Ann aka. (Annimal!!) lol

Answer 3

I think you should drop the whole matter. You did say he was your Ex-boyfriend. He could have been lying about sleeping with your friend. However, even if he is telling the truth. Here are some lessons to learn when in a relationship.
1) Don't brag (or complain) about how good your lover is in bed.
2) Keep your Lover and your friends separate.

Answer 4

Im sorry that happened to you I am no longer talking to my bff cause she tried to talk to my boyfriend. Well U have every right to be mad because they both did you wrong and then smiled in your face like it was nothing. They cant be trusted and I say you should dump him cause if he can cheat on you with somebody that close to you who knows who he has slept with without you knowing.

You should leave her alone too because was your bestfriend and owed you more than he did.

Answer 5

i would say talk to her about it, but if she does say that it is true try not to get mad at her. because you already have heard it once. i know its hard to believe that someone thats supposed to be your best friend would do that to you, but you have to keep in mind. you arent with that person anymore and its in the past so it doesnt effect you now. not even for the principle of the thing.

Answer 6

If he slept with your "bestfriend" while he was with you, that is so wrong! It is good he told you though, you should have the choice of whether you want to be with him now or not. As for that so called friend? She is no friend. I would definitely bring it up to her and ask her how could she consider herself your friend and do that to you. There are tons of men out there. I would dump them both and tell them to go **** each other. Life is too short to put up with crap from people. Find people who will appreciate you and know the value of comittment and friendship. Good luck to you.

Answer 7

U had every right getting mad. U need to talk to her and get to the bottom of it for closure, but I dont know if you're gonna be able to trust her anymore.

Answer 8

well its not wrong to get mad ib be super pissed off i mean he should expect it anyway i think anyone that had a boyfriend/girlfriend that they realy cared about would be upset if they found out their fiance cheated on them. of course you should talk to your "best friend" but i wouldnt consier her much of a friend if she kept this from you.

i say if you still love the guy and he truely is sorry keep him
if he does it again dump him

Answer 9

Yeah, get mad. You have every right to be. And give your friend a good talking to. Tell her off. She deserves at least that.

Answer 10

Well I think both your ex boyfriend and your best friend are low lifes. But hey remember this, he is your ex boyfriend and now hopefully you have moved on and aren't thinking about getting back with him.