Is it wrong to have a relationship like this??

Question

Have an open relationship.(ie- you flirt with other guys, kiss some of them) Is it wrong if he knows and accepts it?? As long as no sex??

Should he not be accepting of it? Should he be obsessive and be like don't talk to any guys??

He says he would never do any of this but knows I do but doesn't say nething. Does it mean he's okay with it?

Answer 1

I think it is wrong but some people like this and other type of open relationships, which are really open. I just prefer the old fashion type.

Answer 2

That all depends on where you are in your relationship. If you are really serious about each other, and think that there might be a future together, than probably not. Although, if you are open and honest about what is really going on, and both parties have this same open-mindedness and understanding, than there may not be a problem. The only problem is that having an open relationship does offer complications and the potentiality of cheating on either partner's part (usually unintentionally; it just happens). This is why i say that if you plan on getting married in the future, this may not be the best type of relationship. The groundrules must be that there is no sex whatsoever, and if one makes a mistake, that person must tell the other. This at least keeps no secrets. As far as the other guys go, they must realize that you have no real intentions of being with them (unless they really WOW you), and they must not think of you as "sex," because otherwise you will have problems. As long as there is real communication about what is going on, an open relationship offers the possiblility of exploration (without sex), and allows trust and communication to be built, as long as adherence to certain rules is maintained.

Answer 3

If you and he have a complete understanding that your relationship is OPEN and he doesnt MIND you kissing other guys then ummmmmmm Im sure its fine. BUT once u dedicate yourself to one person it should be ONLY that persons lips on yours! It also depends on your age too. If u r young- then why tie yourself down if he does the same with other girls. Does that bother you to think he kisses other girls? In a relationship always ask yourself how YOU would feel if he did it- and if it upsets u then dont do it to him! There is such a thing as an EMOTIONAL affair and sometimes those r even worse than the physical ones because your giving your heart to someone else- not juast your body! As long as he is okay with it- I dont see a problem though

Answer 4

Wrong is a relative term. I think relationships should be defined by the people who are in them. If there is NO deception, ALL ADULT parties agree and you are not physically or emotionally hurting anyone then it is not "wrong". As long as he and your are comfortable with things then it is cool.

Answer 5

Well you shouldn't really be kissin or flirting with no other guy, because would you like it if your boyfriend started flirting with other women and kissin them. If he don't care then i guess its not no real relationship its called fwb -Diamond-

Answer 6

You are setting your relationship up for sure failure, if you both are having the urge to flirt, kiss...ect. other people, then I would think it is time to reevaluate your relationship, maybe you really do not want to be committed to each other after all?

Answer 7

flirting with other guys - ok (as long as he's not around, why not? guys are checking on other girls and not consider cheating..)
kissing - not ok! (imagine seeing him kissing another girl... doesn't make you feel too good...)
If you feel he need to kiss other guys, besides your partner.. maybe he's not the one for you... ever think of that?

Answer 8

Why even be in a Relationship if your going to be doing that.

Answer 9

You still like the attention of the other guys. Either your guy is not fullfiling this need or you or not commited.

Answer 10

U never know when u slip down the road.