Would u call this cheating?

Question

I have a bf, but last night, i went to a rosemead rebels fundraiser dance, i danced with two guys. Would u call this cheating?

{one of the guys is my best friend}

HMy bf goes to the library with 3 girls everyday. I do care but i trust him. I didn't know one of the guys, but we didn't kiss or anything. I asked my bf if he wanted to go to the dance, but he said "HELL NO" so i said whatever, since he told me he was heading off to the library...AGAIN!!! DON"T U THINK I DESERVE TO HAVE FUN??

Answer 1

no

unless you bump and grinded w/ them

Answer 2

No, and a guy looking at porn or going to a strip club isn't cheating, either. :)

Cheating is in the heart as much, if not more, than the physical act itself. Depending on why you were doing what you were doing, it might constitute cheating.

Edit: Concerning your additional details:

It doesn't matter what he does or his reasonings for doing them, not as far as your question is concerned. What matters is what you are doing and your reasons for doing them, and what you are feeling when you do them. Put it this way, if one of you were to cheat on the other, then them cheating in turn is still cheating. Or put it another way, if you consider something that he does as wrong, then doing the same thing yourself is wrong as well.

Put still another way, "Two wrongs don't make a right".

BTW It's funny how you equate him going to the library with you going dancing and add "DON"T U THINK I DESERVE TO HAVE FUN??", as if they're the same thing and as if going to the library is fun. And you don't say if the reason he's with those girls is if he has to be with them, in that maybe they've been assigned to do a school project together. Going to the library because you have to study is a heck of a lot different than choosing to go out dancing.

Answer 3

No Not At All!! You Have Nothing 2 Worry About As Long As You Weren't All Over Them && You Wern't Like Rubbing Up Agianst Them! But I Would Best Suggest Not Telling Ur Husband Or Boy Friend If He Is Really Jealious! But You Didn't Do Anything Wrong!

Answer 4

If you communicate with your boyfriend then you should know how he feels about this situation. In any realtionship, if one person does not like something then it is wrong to do no matter what anyone else says. Some people don't like their sig other to so much as look at someone else while others swap sex partners. So it depends on the rules of your relationship with your bf.

Answer 5

I don't think so, as long as it didn't go beyond dancing. I does not matter if one of them was your best friend or not. Maybe the best way to look at this would be to turn it around. Would you consider it cheating if he went and danced with two girls?

Answer 6

it wouldnt be cheating just as long as u didnt kiss the two guys.
also tell ur bf tht u feel uncomfortable when he goes to the library with three girls.

Answer 7

nope..i dont think so this is considered as cheating on your partner..its only a dance which there are so many people are watching and further more..its your best friend..your boyfriend must learn to differentiate between being open minded or thinks that he is only your bf not your husband..coz he do noy have the right to say what you should and not should do anyway..

Answer 8

I call going to the dance without your bf SUSPECT. Don't know what kind of arrangement you guys have, but it don't sound like bf & gf, or at least it's name only.

Answer 9

No, just as long as you guys didn't touch eachother in an inapropriate way, or kiss... dancing with someone is definatley NOT cheating. Don't feel guilty

Answer 10

of course not,i dance with other guys all the times, but my BF understands...

Answer 11

as long as u didnt do anything other than dance it isnt cheating but tell ur bf if u still feel uncomftorable about it