i met this girl and immediately liked her so i sent her a poem as a secret admirer through e-mail. i didn't know her well at all but i really liked her writing on myspace. she really liked the poem i sent and said she wanted to know who i was. so finally i told her. now, she knows i like her and wants to get to know me to see if she has the same feelings, but i can't stop thinking she is only being nice and secretly thinks i'm a stalker/creep? even though i want to get to know her, i avoid her so she doesn't think i'm stalking her. how do i get over the feeling of being a creep? we have talked a few times now and she says i make her feel incredible inside, and asks me to hang out but i still think she is just too nice.
2006-11-19 04:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMFG dude. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel. If you feel she is being too nice and doesn't really like you then tell her that. Games will get you nowhere. Be a man and tell her how you feel.
2006-11-19 04:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by questioningly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up! she is so into you... She is not being nice she really likes you...Not to many girls can just come out and say that...If you keep avoiding her you will only end up hurting her. She obviously is enjoying the fact you like her... I mean think about it, she wants to hang out wit u...She feels comfortable knowing you like her if she wants to hang! What ever you do don't dive her away by ignoring her if you really feel for her. Just take the chance, ask her to go out to a nice restaurant...Or take her out to do one of her favorite things...You are not a creep for liking her...You are a caring person...
2006-11-19 12:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been going through the same thing, just you know I'm a girl. And I've told him, what she told you. Now I feel a little bit better....
But for you most likely she means it, and the more you avoid her the more uncomfortable she going to get until she starts avoiding you too. Just spend time with her, things will work them self's out.
2006-11-19 12:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over your insecurities ..if u talked on the phone and u 2 like each other whats the big deal ..love has all kinds of avenues..being different is cool? isnt that what they have crammed into are heads since birth plz ..swallow the awkwardness and quit being so senstive and enjoy what has fallen into your arms little one. there is no one who is too nice or too good 4 u..ok..enjoy Love its worth it in the end.. good luck..
2006-11-19 12:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why some men can't believe a woman is not only nice but that she may really love him? Why do you have to be so complicated ? Give yourself a chance.
2006-11-19 12:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by blueyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just assuming things.
You never know if she is truely being nice or really has an interest in you.
Just hang out with her, and then you'll know
2006-11-19 12:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to think in any other things and play sport loss it from your mined
2006-11-19 12:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by lover boy 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋