to make a LONG story short...broke up with the ex because i found out he lied and cheated and has another child on the way...but all i can do is think about the fact that he's spending time enjoying the birth of a new child and im sittin here feeling like crap as if im the one that did something wrong...
2006-11-19 04:25:20 · 9 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because when you put you heart and faith into someone and they betray you, it is natural to question your judgement. Look people make good and bad decision all the time. You have to chalk this one up as a mistake and move on. Naturally you want him to feel bad about losing you but truth is you never really had him so let it go. He doesn't seem like he has any self control so don't be suprised if somewhere in the future he crosses you path again. That will be the time that you will be happy because you made the decision to move on and he will be wondering what he could have had. It happens to all of us at some time.
Keep you head up.
2006-11-19 05:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a story of the loved and lost. Yes you are the one who feels like crap. But hey just think how lucky you are that you didn't also get pregnant with the cheater. I wouldn't worry or dwell on it just live life and some one of better quality will come along.
2006-11-19 04:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by avid_rafter765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all feel like crap when a relationship ends. Unfortunately, he ended this one with a lie. My guess is that you feel like you should have known better. Give yourself a break, you trusted the man, he is the one who messed up. You sound terrific and you deserve a terrific guy. Give your heart time to heal and then you'll be ready to find him.
2006-11-19 04:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been hurt............. it's always easier for the guilty one to continue on with his life while the injured one sits back and feels horrible. I assure you, you will start to feel better soon. Get out....enjoy your life. Be around people that make you feel happy.
2006-11-19 04:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get on with my life. Find someone new!!!!! Enjoy yourself. Once you find true happieness, your ex will be gone out of your head! Oh and you did nothing wrong, it's his loss anyway!!!!!
2006-11-19 04:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no sweeetie. u just feel a little bit jealousy that is not u having the baby.thats how feel when i hear my boy friend had a baby with another ***** i was mad but i got over it cause i love him and the baby is part of his life na di tried to execpt the baby.
2006-11-19 04:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by v 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You feel guilty probably because you feel like he did this because you arent good enough. But he is the one who isnt good enough for you..Hang in there... it will get better with time.
2006-11-19 04:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by nease174 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the back of your mind your ashamed that you fell for such a crappy guy. it happens, dont worry about it. just show him that you can find a real man.
2006-11-19 04:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by TJ815 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered you via email
2006-11-19 04:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋