should I wait or should let go?

Question

I have this long time boyfriend of mine,but up to now
we cannot get married because of some financial problems.
I understand the situation.
I love him so much but I already wanted to have and start a family of my own.

Answer 1

sounds that youre in a hurry..
If you love him that much then sure you can wait.
maybe you two can discuss your own question
so you can settle it.You dont need to have a big amount of money its how you both love each other.

Answer 2

My thoughts are that if you are truly madly in love with him... the kind of love that kills you deep inside when you are far away, the kind that makes you want to jump in his arms at the sight of him when he returns, the kind that pierces you deeply....then i feel that you can work through the financial situation together and plan to have the wedding and life you have always wanted and dreamed about. Relationships are about helping and giving and love. Just make sure that you really want to marry and love the one you are with and that you don't want to just marry someone to start your family. Once you do it is an eternal connection that you can not do away with. Dont be afraid to share your feelings. It may be scary, but it will be worse in the end if you do not.

Answer 3

Just tell him what you just wrote. If you are wanting to get married, just go and do it, it doesn't have to be a big to-do. If he keeps putting it off and putting it off, you may have to consider that he doesn't WANT to get married.

Answer 4

that's tough. guess you really have to weigh matters before you decide. is he the right guy or if you can pass him along without regrets.

Answer 5

pray and mean what you pray for, if God wants it to happen it will happen....peace

Answer 6

if you loved him enough you would wait.