Me and my boyfriend Ricky dated for almost 2 years and then he left me for 2 months ...... in thoes 2 months he dated 2 other girls and now we are back together ..... He treats me somuch better than he used to and we dont fight anymore but I do not understand why he wanted me back ....... In the 2 years that we dated i lost my friends because he didnt like them... I also lost my virgenity to him but i am only 14 and I fell in-love with him .... does he really love me??
2006-11-19 04:06:54 · 11 answers · asked by ashleigh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could have feelings for you, but guys like to keep around the girl(s) who sleep with them and at your ages that's like winning the lotto to a young(sexually active) teenage boy.
2006-11-19 04:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it to me, I'm sorry to say. What's he gonna do another 2 years down the line? The problem is that I don't know how he broke up with you, or why. I also don't know how he managed to convince you to go back to him. But if he didn't have a good explanation for both by the time he wanted you back, then it's not worth it. It sounds like you don't know yourself, in which case move on. I hate to be so blunt, but you can do better. Learn to be happy by yourself. Alone without being lonely. He also sounds like somewhat of a CONTROL-FREAK. Trust me, that's NOT a good thing. I know from experience that if he makes you ditch your friends because HE doesn't like them, he's trying to control your life. This problem will only get worse. It will escalate from something small like that, to manipulating you and putting you down when you don't do things HIS way, to finally physical abuse(though most control-freaks will wait until they trap you in marriage to go that far) All around, from what I know, I'd say get out while you can. I don't think you wanna get stuck with this guy's baby. You're young still, and have LOTS of time to fall in love again. Right now, you should be concentrating on getting your life started. Have some fun for goodness sake!!!! Take it from someone who spent their whole childhood trying to be grown up: YOU DON'T GET THIS TIME BACK. PARTY AND ENJOY LIFE LIKE IT'S YOUR LAST DAY ON EARTH!
2006-11-19 04:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young. Slow down. I remember writing something which I felt was quite profound and indicative of my inner self when I was 16. It got stored among some other papers and when I was 22 I found it one day. I read what I wrote and could not believe that I wrote it. I was totally different person in just 6 years. That will happen to you also. Slow down enjoy your childhood and teenage years. In six years you may not even remember his name! I wish the best of everything fur you.
2006-11-19 04:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think that u r friend has learned his lesson so after leaving u for 2 months he dated some girls i think the girls were not satisfied with his thing so than i think now he needs u back he started treating u better than before its better for u and now make u old friends and have fun in life and he really loves u that is my final answer.On this matter only some one else who knows that boy can say u that weather he loves u or not but i think he loves u
2006-11-19 04:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by rafibeyondall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl this is hard for me to say , but do u love him that much to stay with him. see u know he going to cheat on u again . he loves u , but he's probably young , and don't know the rules to satying with someone or he just confused and don't know what to do . if u feel this way , why not talk to him and tell him whats going on .
i was in the same situation but look he loved me but he couldn't hangled being in a real good relationship. now we friends and working it out. see love is hard to find , but i moved on , now i'm with someone who will treat me right , but i still don't know what he may do or when . see thats the thing about relatonships u have tro have trust until proving that u shouldn't good luck girl and i hope u find the right path to take.
2006-11-19 04:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by dance3life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's using you for sex! You are way too young. You should NOT be having sex, honey. Not much else to say. Stop it though...your reputation, your future, your self respect, and possibly an unplanned pregnancy is all at stake if you keep up this behavior. For every decision you make in life there is always a consequence...always.
2006-11-19 04:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you are 14 years old. There is no reason you should be in this type of relationship with anyone. How old is he? No, im sorry but i just dot believe in kids acting like grown-ups. You need to live as a child b/c once its gone, you are going to miss it.
2006-11-19 04:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by miss-ag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too complicated for a 14 yr old.
2006-11-19 04:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So young too hard to tell
2006-11-19 04:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is cheating on you and any boyfreind who doesent accept your freinds dont date him its just wrong.
2006-11-19 04:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by farahthequeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋