How do I break up gracefully?

Question

Ok so I have decided to end the relationship with my b/f I currently have the only child he can see and he has already said if I leave him he won't come over and see him. He has used guilt to get me to stay with him, but I can't deal with the crap anymore. My question is how do I tell him without stomping all over his feelings and ripping his guts out?

I am a woman (this is his account lol he never goes online he hates the internet)

Answer 1

You just have to tell him it's over. Be honest and mature about how you feel. If he decides not to see his son that is NOT your fault. The longer you wait to end this the worse it will be for everyone. Once it is over the two of you can hopefully work together for the good of your child. If he wants to be an idiot and not see his child then he will be the one to lose out in so many ways.

Answer 2

My question is.....why would you care if you hurt his feelings.

Heck this man has hurt you,and worse,put guilt trips on you.
Saying he won`t even come over to spend time with his only child if you 2 break up.

WRONG ANSWER!!!!
Tell him pack his stuff,and you hope the door hits his butt on the way out.
You need to get rid of him,and get yourself a REAL MAN,and YES there are out there.
Take care

Answer 3

There is no easy way to do this. Just see him and let him know you don't blame him for anything and you have thought about this a lot and that it is for the best that your guys should separate.

Answer 4

Ewwwwwwww, gayness.

Answer 5

Try talking to him in a rational way. This is about all you can do.

Answer 6

There is no way to break up "gracefully".