my boyfriend left to New York yesterday, and well, I just want to know if love works even when you're 6000 miles away...
2006-11-19 03:49:17 · 35 answers · asked by annie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he'll be away for 2 months... or more if everything goes "well"... i really love him...
2006-11-19 04:00:42 · update #1
trying to find out myself
2006-11-19 03:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how hard you work at it. Although 9 times out of 10 it does not work because you both have the space to find new loves, and forget about one another. If you stay committed to the relationship then it may last a long time. But the toughest thing when it comes to long distant relationships is honesty. One of you can say that nothing is going on, but with all honesty something can be going on and you'll have no clue what to do and won't have the chance to find out what is going on.
If you really want it to work, then you have to work on Honesty, but in all reality I would nt count on it if you are both not willing to work hard on keeping the fire going.
2006-11-19 03:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by pinky_lady_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough.....It can if you are both committed, but you are both human. We aren't perfect. I am sure this is not going to be the best answer because it probably isn't what you want to hear, but honestly. If it is meant to be it will be. BUT I just can't see that working honey. If you can find a way to move there with him, you have it made, if not. It just doesn't seem possible. I am sorry and I wish I could have given you the answer you want to hear, but that would be crappy to give someone false hope. Good luck Sweetie...I feel for you.
2006-11-19 03:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by mysticeyes792006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
New York? Well, you might as well end the relationship now and save yourself the heartache of doing it later. He will get involved with someone else I guarantee it and it doesn't matter what kind of front he puts on for you he will not remain faithful. Don't wait around for the lies and deceitfulness to start. You will be the only one hurt in the end not him.
2006-11-19 03:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately statistics reveal that most, if not all, long distance relationships result in failure, however the memories will last as long as those involved wish them to, and there is always the possibility that the future holds a reuniting of such couples...
2006-11-19 03:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Not for me they don't. A couple hrs difference might be possible if both ya'll are serious about not flirting with the girls at tha club, or the guy next door . Mix alcohol with that sinerio and you better ware some saftey goggles..on your heart..good luck
2006-11-19 03:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by fluent_c_libra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you put a lot of effort of keeping the relationship going and still putting trust in it then it would work out.
2006-11-19 04:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two really love each other then you can make it work. Make sure you write letters back and forth and talk on the phone and computer all the time.
2006-11-19 03:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by AG3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u truly beleive ur made for one another and u don't lose communication then it shud be ok, ive been in a long distance relationship for a year now, everythings still great. wish i cud see him more, but hey u can't have everything u want.
2006-11-19 03:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it becomes very difficult to have a long distance relationship.. at first you are calling each other every day.. then not so much until it becomes 1 every 2 weeks.... unless you see each other 1 every 3 months.. it will fail...
2006-11-19 03:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jorge R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They rarely ever work. If he's going to be away for an extended time, break up and then go back out when together again. If it was meant to be, you should have no problem getting yourselves back together!! :)
2006-11-19 03:53:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋