hey everyone! there is this girl i know who i see almost evryday and tlk to her a,crack jokes and all..she laughd at em as wel then i gathrd up courage and asked her to go out with common frens.couple of days back we were supposed to go to a party i asked if i cud pick her up on my way and she said yes..askd me to call her and fix up the time id pick her.. but party got canclled we still met in class..i even mailed her funny msgs which she replied to the same hilarious way and texed her mobil msg.i even askd her out for a coffee which she refused and even offered to drop which she politely trnd dwn my of .. the party was reschedld and pickin up from last time she had agreed to come with me i maild her about the new schedule of the party and asked her in funny way if i cud pick her on my way and askd her to cal me but she dint and to my surprise she came to the prty but ignord me cmpletly and whevr i tried to wave at her she just looked away ..plz tell how do i clear up this mess..
2006-11-19 03:47:40 · 10 answers · asked by sam21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-19 03:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jorge R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me make sure I understand you...you wanted to take a girl to a party as friends...she agreed...party cancelled and then rescheduled...she didn't call you to make plans even though you did contact her...she shows up at the party but ignores you. Is that right? OK here is the deal...Sounds like she likes you as a friend and is not ready to be anything more...She may be ready at a later date...She could right now be very upset with you and she may think you stood her up!! This is very bad...the only way to make things better is to work up your courage and apologize for any miscommunications between you. YOU NEED TO DO THIS IN PERSON! Text messages, e-mails, and phones are great for goofing off and exchanging information but when it comes to apologies...you two had better be face to face...Explain to her what might have gone wrong find out how she feels (show interest in how she feels) and do what you can to make her a good friend again. If you truly like her enough to try to date her...TELL HER...but if you are not sure of her feelings for you...you better try to find them out by being more interested in her and her needs (emotional) she will start to give signals if she begins to have feelings for you that are beyond the friend level but until then I wouldn't push the girlfriend-boyfriend issue at all...the best thing you can do is talk to her in person as much as possible. texting will keep you in the friend zone! get some real time stuff face to face with her dude!
2006-11-19 04:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know....I think you should back off for now. Keep looking around. It sounds alot like she doesn't know what she's looking for, or maybe shes just not ready for a commitmant. This is stereotypical of guys, but some girls are like that too. If she really likes you, then she'll chase you. Do you know any of her friends that you can trust won't tell her what you say? If yes, ask them whats going on! It can't hurt...just make sure you trust them! Good luck!!
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2006-11-19 03:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Paper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear all this..... it isn't your fault. I'm stumped at her behavior. Try not to be too hurt by this and just keep it going light hearted. Girls for some reason unknown (even to myself, being a girl) tend to hold grudges for the slightest implied wrongs...... even if you aren't at fault. For some reason, she may have wanted to go with you even without the party and feels you don't want to be with just her. That's all I can figure. Maybe ask her to go to a movie, just the two of you. Good luck!
2006-11-19 03:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by jenny in ohio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone probaby purely informed her somethingor likely her different "chum" got here out of no the position. provide her some time to imagine.. go away her on my own for some days and if she nonetheless keeps to attempt this then ask her tell her you're sorry for inspite of you probably did. If she nonetheless ignores then you jus drop it. you may not recognize what extremely happend. So, provide her time to go back to you. solid success!!!
2016-11-29 06:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone she is not interested and if you keep bothering her you will come out looking like a crazed stalker. Some females are just unable to tell someone they are not interested because they will hurt their feelings. Move on and find someone who will enjoy your attentions.
2006-11-19 03:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she took you as a friend and not as ..you know..you should have been clear with your feelings(though you have tried to be) so now just go and tell her. Tell her everything! she would either accept or refuse it but still there is no point for her to refuse your proposal.
2006-11-19 03:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask her by saying something like..."for the record, did I do something to offend you, I thought we were getting along well."
Or you could just let it go and move on. She obviously doesn't want anything more to do with you. It happens sometimes. Best of everything to you!
2006-11-19 03:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i must say thats a sticky sit.
the best thing for you to do is tell her how you feel about her! tell her YOU realize that the last time[s] didnot work and the reasons why you think. dont make up excuses! that one of the worst things to do...they become redundant!
talk to her...=]
best of luck to you and i hope this helped!
2006-11-19 03:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r so boring and annoying to that gurl maaaan.....u gotta cool out....act normally....say hi to her and then leave er alone.....later if she starts talking to u first or sthg like that - good.....if not leave that gurl......i've been in a same situation.....
2006-11-19 03:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by CosmicLove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋