Ive known this guy as a friend for 3 ears. He moved to another state 2 years back. We keep in touch though. At the beginning of the year i told him i liked him and he didn't reciprocate the feeling, instead he made me feel as though he was still inlove with his ex-girlfriend. so i moved on and we did not speak for a while. When we finaly started talking again he asked if i had slept with anyone and i didn't want to lie so i said yes. Now 4 months down the line he asks me the same question whether i really slept with any guys all those other months. why would he ask me this!
2006-11-19 03:32:25 · 14 answers · asked by allme_pc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems to me like this guy doesn't know what her wants. First he plays bluff & then wants to know if moving on (getting any). My guess is that he wants u, but wants to find if u are living your life outside of his (bubble yard) expetations. Another thing is that he might be afraid to say "i really like you" so he looks for a way to get out without feeling like a coward.
(He feels that he doesn't have to ask you out if sleeping with someone else.) Loose him You much more clever & beautiful to go down that road, trust me.
If u wanna find out ask him why ask u this if his not interested anyway. - check his response
2006-11-19 03:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Botshelo M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just a mean guy. Acts like he is involved with his ex-girlfriend and acts like he cares for you. although he hasn'e said or done anything that approves this.
is there anything different between had slept with anyone else and not slept. I think he just wants to know his importance to women
2006-11-19 03:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by laneige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think abstinance is a sign of virtue. Some people think the lower the number of men you've slept with the tighter you are. There's really a million answers to this question. But obviously it bothers him, and if you like him I suggest you not sleep with other guys anymore.
2006-11-19 03:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe hes over his ex now and has changed his mind about his feelings for you. But he wants to know if youve been sleazing around. To some guys, its a turn off. Granted, its unfair since Im sure he has been no saint.
2006-11-19 03:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he has a huge hang-up about women having slept with other men. This is not a good sign at all. I suggest not getting intimately involved with this man....you're looking at trouble!
2006-11-19 03:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's like all men of this ilk, they don't want you but they don't want anyone else to have you either.
Walk away, there is nothing in this. The next time he or any other guy asks you this question tell them its none of their business.
2006-11-19 03:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. either is interested in you and feels sexually unsure of himself
2. hes interested but does not want to be int eh bedroom with any one
3. he wants you to tell him all your sexual adventures for him to get off on
4. he wants to go to bed with oyu and does nto know how to ask
5. he slept with lots of girls and s interested in you but doe snot want you to feel uncomfortable if you were ever to find out.
2006-11-19 03:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this boy to mind his damn business. He's not your boyfriend/husband, etc and that's none of his business. He's not trying to make a move towards you so fall back and mind ya damn business. Tell him to be concerned about how many people his chick is nailing!!
2006-11-19 03:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to know if you been around. All guys do that and depending on what you answer than that's how he is going to treat you.
2006-11-19 03:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by joesy617 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He simply wants to feed his ego and see if you have been waiting for him all this time. Tell him it's none of his business!!
2006-11-19 03:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋