For people with a similar experience. I recently dated this girl who has a beautiful baby girl. The baby is not mine, but I would love her as if she was. This girl was dumped by her x when he found out that she was pregnant. I met her at a friends house and we hit it off. She would invite me around regularly to visit her at her house and we had a great time just me, her and her baby. We laughed joked and had fun. Then her landlord decided to sell the place and she needed to move out. She does'nt have a car so she got a lift to work with a freind. Her freind could no longer offer her the lift service because she had moved in with her best freinds parents. I then offered to take her to work and drop the baby off at the sitters she accepted. Once she was in her new reidence it became very hard for to see her again. I saw her for ten min in the morning while drivingand ten min at night when I dropped her off. when I asked her to do something with me she brushed it off.
Is she using me ?
2006-11-19 03:12:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK SO AND I'M SORRY TO HEAR THAT.
I WOULD COME RIGHT OUT AND ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU AND WHY SHES AVOIDING YOU LATELY.
GOOD LUCK!!!! YOU ARE NOT A TAXI CAB DRIVER EITHER I KNOW HER LIFE IS ROUGH BUT IF IT COMES DOWN TO THAT'S ALL SHE WANTS THAN DON'T ALLOW HER TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU IN THIS WAY
2006-11-19 03:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by KAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has A LOT on her plate right now. Don't try to push the issue. Being dumped, and then getting pregnant, having a child, and getting kicked out of her place.
She is just not mature enough to realize how great you are being at this time. Give her more time to get her life back in order before asking her out. You may go as far as asking her if you can cook her a homecooked meal for her at her place.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-19 03:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by pinky_lady_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but I guess so. If all she does is get picked off by you and dropped off, shouldn't there be some time in between? If that's the only time you see her she is probably needing someone to bring her somewhere. But at the same time, she is a single mother with a baby girl and she needs help. At the moment, help her and talk to her if she really is dating you or if you're a helpful friend.
2006-11-19 03:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by boa-myname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this question but I'll confirm your suspicions.....YES....run don't walk away.....It's not fair to you and it's certainly not fair to that baby for you to be a part of his/her life when you really do not and probably won't ever have a good relationship with the mother. Doesn't sound like she is mature enough to handle a relationship with you never mind a baby but don't make her problems your problems...good luck.
2006-11-19 03:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-19 03:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Bean counter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be afraid of getting used herself...sounds like she already has been.
She might think that since you are doing her a favor, you will expect something in return.
You may want to question your motives as well...she may be doing that now.
2006-11-19 03:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is using you sounds like her plate is full.I bet if she had her own place again it would be different.Its got to suck living with friends with a baby.Hopefully she will be able to get her own place soon and things will get back to normal.
2006-11-19 03:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Addie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she is using you. Stop being her free chauffer. AAAAAHHH! I hate this! I have been thru situations like this with guys who dont have a car. Now I only dates guys who have cars. Sorry, but people who dont have cars use people who do have cars.
2006-11-19 03:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is that "something" that you want her to do with you? if its just going out (wholesome stuffs) then she is obviously using you, if its something malicious then she has every right to get rid of you.
2006-11-19 03:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Keepingmycool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could be that she's just stressed out and just needs to get her own affairs straightened out.
2006-11-19 03:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋