I haven't seen my bf for a month. Even I called him serval times, he was reluctantly to reply my call. He said he needs more room to be alone. But, how can I cope with those days within him.
2006-11-19 03:08:23 · 36 answers · asked by chrysa_life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When they say they need more space usually means i am tired of you and that is that. Don't sit at home waiting for him to make up his mind, you do your own thing as well. They the boyfriends are clever they know the females will be sitting next to the phone's or watch the cell-phones all the time , just waiting for them to phone, makes them feel powerful. No, you go out and enjoy yourself, i am sure that is what he is doing. Good luck :)
2006-11-19 03:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have a same problem, haha
My bf and I are from a different country, my parents are against us.
I am planning to go to see my bf, but I don't know whether he will see me or not. If not then what will I do in a strange country, which is Korea. He doesn't pick up the phone, and only sent a message saying It's hard to live far, we even don't speak the same language.
2006-11-19 03:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by laneige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, I dint want to think that you are this kind of girl that is always calling the boyfriend to ask where he is, what his doing, where he going, just only in thinking it drive me CRAZY. If you are like this, you already kill what both of you have it.
But if you are the common person that wait his call and talk and sometimes call him is OK.
This mean that he doesn't love you anymore I recommend you to go at his home dont wait for him and tell him not ask, that your relation is over, and if he agree is because he does not love you anymore. Prepare your self for this answered.
Love is over is very clear, he dint want to said anything but ignoring you and not taking your call, that's are the symptoms of a broken or end relation.
2006-11-19 03:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by FallenAngel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a complete waste of time, do your hair, get some eye candy and show him what he is missing! always be seen happy, because trust me you will be when you get someone who feels sooooo strongly about you that they cant even imagine a night with out you, let alone a month of ignoring you. he is probably seeing someone else and laughing behind your back. guaranteed he has told everyone about you and your 'hanging on'. im sorry darling but i have to tell you the truth, been there done that and the only thing you are doing is supporting the ego he has. go on, deflate him!! x
2006-11-19 03:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it. He wants to end the relationship but doesn't know how. Save him the embarassment and dump him 1st. Move on. Find another guy. Try to scedule a time to meet up with him then dump him in person (bc dumoing on the phone is rude). Be strong and do it!
2006-11-19 03:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could verify that tale out some extra. My ex tried to drag something comparable on me like that and that i stupidly believed him. Now we arent at the same time yet i could only save that little incident interior the back of my head and check out on that. How many times does he have human beings calling him at his abode to get him to restoration their automobile?? Is that what he does for a residing? in spite of if it extremely is, then it extremely is distinctive yet while he doesnt generally restoration peoples autos then that must be a crimson flag.
2016-11-25 19:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a load of crap on his part. Tell him to be strait with you. You don't have time to sit around and take this crap from him. Life is too damn short. Demand an answer or you'll go find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated!
2006-11-19 03:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by mysticeyes792006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has finished with you the cowards way!
Sorry. But if you read the answers they all say the same.
He has also left it open for him to return.
My theory is that he is testing the water with another girl but leaving your realtionship open so that he can come back if it doesn't work out.
You could try and catch him with her -then you'd know for sure.
Forget him - he'll only do it again and again!!
2006-11-19 03:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip chick....this dudes not into you. Its already over. My guess is as soon as you move on he will try to do just enough to get you back again and then it will be more of the same.....I need my space....blah, blah, blah. These type dont change. You dont deserve this, so dump the trash and get someone who will cherish you.
2006-11-19 03:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yesterday even, I had to go on the "break".
This is how i'm coping:
this is what makes them happy....and if they are happy shouldnt u be happy too? b/c this is what they want and need.
yes all the memories will come back... but you just have to realize that this is whats best and that everythign happens for a reason and before you know it these days will be over.
2006-11-19 03:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋