they never get a long!
2006-11-19 03:05:05 · 14 answers · asked by Carly Sue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
stay out of it
2006-11-19 03:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by gary_george48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carly Sue, the biggest thing you can do for your parents is to pray for them. If your family is not going to church, ask around at school, and see where some of the kids go and see if you can get your parents involved. Also, if your mom/dad both work, try to do a little more around the house-cleaning up, taking out trash, etc. A lot of times working moms feel overwhelmed and they end up taking it out on hubby. Maybe one night make an easy supper-spaghetti, even a frozen dinner already prepared would help your mom! Make her a bubble bath and tell them you are going to your room to study! They may just need a little time alone, with the house clean and supper ready!!
2006-11-19 11:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by deb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are not the cause of it or a part of it then there is nothing you can do to fix it.
It is just thier battle over thier contrasting viewpoints and differenced. Just wait it out or perhaps try to talk to them about it.
Other than that, if you feel sad when they do, then just try to stay as far away as possible. If they ask you about why you are so aloof, then just explain to them that thier fighting makes you uncomfortable and maybe that will give them enough motivation to stop.
2006-11-19 11:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dint need to do anything, is not your responsibility. They are the adults they have to resolve there problems. And you the only thing that you can do is sit both parents and let them know how you feel when they fight. That's all. but never resolve there problems is not your business.
2006-11-19 11:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by FallenAngel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow its extremely normal for parents to fight! I would think somethings wrong if mine were'nt fighting. Just don't take all the fighting to heart its a really effective stress releiver!
2006-11-19 11:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Damien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately theres nothing you can really do.my parents fight a lot too and even though its hard,you have to try and ignore it and not let it get to you.talking to them about it might help,but definitely dont try to go and fix it.if they start fighting just go up to your room and listen to some music,go for a walk, or something to keep it off your mind.you cant control their problems,and you shouldnt have to.good luck.<3
2006-11-19 11:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by mzmatherz69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing you can do. If they have always been that way, nothing is gonna change. All you can do is leave. Leave the house, leave to your room. But you can show your disapproval. When they start, make a comment like 'How very mature you both are', then leave.
2006-11-19 11:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See its very simple all you need to do is make them sit when everything is going smooth and then talk to them nicely n peacefully and clear their doubts with you.Do not make it an heated argument.If you cannot handle pray and ask GOD to settle the matter he will do.Its my guarantee.
2006-11-19 11:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell them while they argue informally that they don't have to argue about this....try to change the subject for them.....draw their attention to something else......drag either one out of the conversation......this normally helps......good luck
2006-11-19 11:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should refer them to therapy but then again they may not get along so meybe that is puting something in your life that i know that you don't want
2006-11-19 11:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by oneluv813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL THEM TO GET SOME COUNCELING .
OR YOU WILL MOVE OUT
TELL THEM YOU DON'T LIKE IT.
IF THEY LOVE YOU THEY WILL STOP FIGHTING
2006-11-19 12:54:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋