How do you work up the courage to go talk to a guy when your out? I have absolutely NO guts when it comes to talking to guys Im attracted to. I can talk to guys I have no interest in, but not the ones Im attracted to. It kills me because it's the only thing I have working against me. I know I have a good personality, Im attractive, and I think I have a lot to offer someone. The reason I say this is because I know I am lucky enough and blessed to have all of these things...not because I am conceited. Its taken me a long time to actually be able to look at myself and truly say "OK, this is what you have going for you and this is what you don't". Also, it would help you answer my question better. I know if I had the guts to talk to guys, I wouldn't have so much trouble meeting a nice one. But thats my HUGE downfall. What can I do???
2006-11-19 03:02:32 · 6 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you're at a bar, notice what Mr. Cutie is drinking. Buy him another! Girls can buy drinks for guys too. It's probably something he's not used to, so he'll go up and thank you for the drink. Tell him you noticed him and would like to get to know him a little, and would he mind joining you, or care to dance......he'd probably take it where he wanted it.....he knows you're interested, if he is too, he'll let you know by continuing the conversation, you probably don't even have to ask to join him, he'll invite you or maybe just invite himself. Go with it hun, you wouldn't be approaching him, and that's the big step you've just eliminated! Good luck!
2006-11-19 03:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If talking is the problem you have to make him talk to you. Walk by a couple of times, look at him, drop something, stand by the guy (if he's at the bar, stand beside him to order a drink and if he looks, at you smile)... let him do the talking. If he's interested, I assure you he will. Let him think he won you over.
2006-11-19 11:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by mackenzie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you imagine that the guy you really like is someone you dont have any interest in? It could be a pyschology thing.
Failing that, pretend the guy in question has a clown's face painted on him. However the downside to that one is that you cant stop laughing ;)
2006-11-19 11:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you see a guy you like just smile at him and say hi that should give him a hint. most of the time girls dont do that. If he is intersted he should come up to you. good luck
2006-11-19 11:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i know this sounds dumb but practice in the mirror or on ur bro, or someone ur not attracted to. the next time u talk to someone ur not attrated to, pretend u are attracted to him just to get used to it. then the next time u try 2 talk to someone u are attracted to pretend ur not and u'll do fine.
hope i helped and good luck :)
-Lolly Pop Candy
2006-11-19 11:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by cAllimac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ah its like well no not really
2006-11-19 11:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋