My best friends and i are so close to each other.But lately,i got a boyfriend.I'm torn between them.My boyfriend said i care more to my friends than him cause my reactions towards him.But i didn't mean that.What should i do?What should i do to show him that i care for him?
2006-11-19 02:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by Farrah Lyana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is gonna make u choose between him and your friends dump him, I mean he should respect you have been with ur friends more than you have with him, look at it this way, you can be with your friends and ur bf, when/if he dumps you you still have your friends, or just be with ur bf then when/if he dumps you have no one.. (i know it sounds mean but its true)
2006-11-19 11:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but there's not much you can do about it. Those feelings have to do with his insecurities and low self-esteem.
The only thing you can do is reassure him that it's him that you care about the most, but then again it's in his head to believe or not believe, to trust you or not. And as long as he doesn't change internally, it will all be the same. No matter what you say.
2006-11-19 11:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by mackenzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wat i would do is seperate the days. like on monday wednesday and friday ur friends get the attention the on tuesday thursday, saturday, and sunday your guy does. if that doesnt work then set time away for each other and dont forget urself!!! u need a day to be alone, trust me
2006-11-19 11:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remeber the old saying,,,,boyfriends come and go, but a good friend is forever??? its true!!!!!!!!!!!! Any man that cant understand how important friends are in life is not a man yet anyway.
2006-11-19 11:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by okie300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him for a movie...then after wards...talk to him...he'll understand...then after that...take your friends out for icecream or something...they'll understand that you had a date...and if that doesn't work...mark your dates on a calendar...then you can see when you have your dates with your bf and when you have plans with your friends...then you won't have anything to worry about!
2006-11-19 11:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by l_srhmr_l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to spend more times with your boyfriend. and when your around your best friend, keep in mind that your boyfriend is still there.
2006-11-19 11:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by mi2z_myst3ry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your bf you need some space and you want to hang out w/ your friends more.
Your friends will be there longer than any guy!Trust me
2006-11-19 11:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt understand that you are just one person then you dont need him
2006-11-19 11:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by k_lecureux_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh go gay
2006-11-19 11:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋