plz answer !! desperate 4 an answer! wat would u have done?

Question

ok i had a party 4 my bday and my boy friend came etc the night after my good friend called him and asked him if he liked her he thought she meant as a friend and said yea they tlked 4 hours and realised they had alot in common then she asked him 2 hook up and he said yes. at skool my friend was acting all weird and stuff so i asked her wats up she spilled i thought it was sum dumb joke but she said she called him and told him she could not do that to me so i called him and said how cud u and broke up with him he then kept calling and harasin me so i answered and he cried n said he was not thinkin so i gave in then 2wks later i thought about wat i did then said no i shud brk up with him because alot of ppl in my class liked him and ppl stopped tlkin 2 me out of jealousy and i cud be played again so i asked him y he did it n he said he did not want 2 hurt my friends feelings and i ssaid well u risked not hurting hers 4 hurting mine,the person who u LLOOOOOOOOVE and broke up with him

Answer 1

I'm glad you broke up with him, you deserve better, than a guy who will play you, your worth way more than that, and by breaking up with him, it will build your self esteem that much more, in the future if anything like this happens again (God forbid) you'll recognize it, and you wont stand for it.

God Bless

Answer 2

If that had been my friend. I would have kicked her to the curb quickly. As far as old boy goes you'd better find someone else. If he went that far with her there is no telling what he'd do the next time. You had it right when you said he'd save her feelings over yours. It's a good thing you found out when you did. Just chalk that up as a lesson learned. Never tell your homegirl anything about your man. That makes them want to try and fit in your shoes. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!!!

Answer 3

I would've forgave him but kept him on a short leach. If he was to get out of line and try to play me again it was over, besides he would not have done that if your friend hadn;t provoked him. I would dump her as a friend. She is not a good one if she go behind your back and try to hook up with your man.Think about it, if she would betray you when you got a man what would she do if you didn't have him and for the haters at your school forget them. If he want you, he want you they can't do nothing about it.

Answer 4

nicely, GiGi i'm srry to assert yet, I truthfully does not pass out with him if his modern-day gf might desire to as much as erics social gathering with the aid of fact all thats gonna initiate is drama and that i dont think of all of us likes drama. So i might wreck up with him nevertheless searching for some single adult men available cauz there are various!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm extraordinarily specific u can discover yet another one out of the a million.5 million or billion adult men available stable success and that i used to be hoping i helped!

Answer 5

Your english or how should i say your essay is very special.Indeed.But some how i manage to understand what you're telling.For me,at school or as a student,we should concentrated on our studies.You can find another when you are manage to.Know what i mean?And for your action although it is abit childish but its correct.

Answer 6

move on..he wanted to be with her while being taken already by u...how does it feel to be in a relationship and not even kno u got dumped and for ur friend??? ditch her and him!!! a true friend wouldnt be going for ur man! and if u do take him back, ur as dumb as hell...sorry. who gives a s h i t what he has to say...his actions spoke for him already.. ...there is no such thing as a mistake in his case..if he did love u he woulda told her to f*** off, which he didnt so u be the smart one and let him go.....tell him he`s free to hook up with her now that u have got him off ur back.

Answer 7

The same thing you did! He's history, he doesn't deserve you. When will his NEXT 4 hour conversation be and with who. You'll never able to trust him again. I wish the best of everything to you!

Answer 8

I wouldn't have dated or been friends with either one of them. Sounds like you attatch yourself to people who like to sabatoge relationships. My suggestion is this: Make some friends who actually appreciate you.

Answer 9

i wouldnt have gone back with him because he hooked up with your friend and i wouldnt be hanging with that chick either because she knew u guys were dating and still asked him and everything so u did the right thing

Answer 10

if he isn't going to be there for you, and try to get with other girls, he's not right for you. try to work through this, and in time it will be OK. Good luck.