As i have told already in my previous questions that i say my bf that i dont want to continue it more nd i have already told that how he hurt me but now he is asking me that can we be just friends now. Pls i am not in a position to think that what will be right but i think that u people will give me best answer that what should i do now. Can simple friendship be possible after love.
2006-11-19 02:37:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have always had problems with friendship after a relationship. It never worked for me. What you can do is tell him what you just told us and ask him to take some distance for some time. You can get in touch with him when you feel ready to talk to him again. Get some perspective and then see.
2006-11-19 03:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Miss T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not right away and maybe not at all! You both need alot of space, like a year at least. I missed you first part. But, if there was some grievous wrong done, then there can be no friendship.
Friendship after love is very hard. Many confuse the old feelings. Often there is one in the old relationship still in love. This would make a friendship agony for them! Thus there are stalkers, murders and crimes of passion. This is also a way to continue to have control.
Cutting it clean for now is best. Start to learn about yourself and grow. Serious dating can and should be put off for a while (6months to a year). You are in mourning and should work out of those feelings. Give yourself time to clear your head and get yourself straight. God Bless and good luck!
2006-11-19 02:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crap! How can u take so much SH.......
It will be difficult for u to live with this other emotion. Pl don't complicate ur life with all this nonsense. Make a clean break. If he didn't treat u well before what guarantee that he just won't take advantage now too?
Remember, the diseased part is to be amputated.
Good Luck
2006-11-25 01:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by mana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It is impossible to be a friend with an ex. Tell him that plainly. Tell him that it would have been a different case if you had been just friends right from the beginning but once you are in a relationship and that too a painful one, it is impossible for you to be his friend or continue to talk to him or interact with him. Be firm.
2006-11-19 02:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! if this guy has hurt ur feelings then he is bound to do that again... dont underestimate urself .. u will surely find some1 who is more sensible toward u. and simple frenship isnt possible.. it will alwaz remind u of the past u 2 had and it will create an awkward situation...
2006-11-19 03:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by sam21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I am sorry to announce to you if the relationship is over so is the friendship it is just not possible. Anyone who says they can be friends after is full of it.
2006-11-19 02:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you want an excuse? purely drop the kind! in case you attend a school/college and also you pay for those instructions out of pocket or monetary help.. then by all potential purely drop it. in case you should describe why you should drop the kind, then say you don't love the shown truth that your prof. smokes and it makes you uncomfortable and hinders your ability to study.
2016-11-29 06:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to dissappoint you, but it will just not work. if you were to carry on, then a time will come when he will want more than just friendship. in the meanwhile. if you find someone else, then that other person will definitely not understand. it is best to cut off totally.
2006-11-19 03:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by sid s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its possible but not yet. tell him that to proove his friendship he must quit and with time all previous feelings will vanish then try. friendship needs patience. just concentrate with ur duty look for open doors rather than weeping for closed one.
2006-11-19 06:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by sarfile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes ,But depends on how close you are together .If he hurt you deeply I recommend to stop friendship with him but if you forgave him and forgot then it is still possible to be only friend .
Good luck
2006-11-19 02:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋