i like to do it but i am self concious about myself. im a big girl and usually i don't really take all my clothes off. i don't kno why cuz im proud of being a big girl but when it comes to doing it i go way down but i have do it alot. i want to be able to do it and not be scared to take me clothes off.
2006-11-19 02:36:04 · 13 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going to tell you what. If you are really proud to be a big girl you shouldn't be worried about taking off all your clothes. If the guy you are having sex with really likes you for you he'll want all your clothes off too. Think about that.
2006-11-19 02:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
u know this not a bad thing this is a good thing becoz u keep tenacious of ur body becoz this body is urs and u feel very shy if some 1 c it u feel he take something from u with his looks .....
i think u need help from some 1 close 2 u .........if u hav BF then let him help u about this and if u dont hav BF then:
Plan B:is when u wanna get naked hide ur naked body under the quilt mabe this gonna make u feel better
Plan C: (it sound crazy but this is my only way)
ask ur friend 2 help u with this ..... i mean 2 b like the 1 u will dating him step-by-step u will b fine.
Hope u Find Ur Answer
2006-11-19 11:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by Khaled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can sort of relate to you.
I am not big I am actually 105 pounds and I am just generally self concious about myself and im not sure why... but heres the deal
if you really really like somoene and they really really like you then it shouldnt be a problem.. i was with this guy for a little over a year and we were sexually active and i trusted him and lil by lil i started to feel comfortable about it... good luck with it and if its a big deal you could talk to ur guy about it =)
2006-11-19 10:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by sweetlilme17 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first thing is first. Love who you are!
If you are a Big woman who cares. There are a WHOLE lot of men who love big women!
Also, both big and small and all sizes in-between are self aware of little problems they may have. You can never correct every issue that YOU assume you have.
2006-11-19 11:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by lancelot682005 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are quite promiscuous if you have to worry about a bunch of men seeing your body. You should not have sex with anyone you are not deeply in love with. When that is the case, then superficial matters like size don't matter at all. Get some self respect and stop sleeping around, and you will be able to find someone who loves ALL of you.
2006-11-19 10:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A guy that puts looks above anything else is looser to the 33rd degree. We all come in various shapes & sizes, & to me big IS beautiful. No matter what color, height, weight, physical disability, etc. Certainly say to yourself "I maybe big, but I am beautiful in God's eyes"!
2006-11-19 10:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by Phil P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Awwww I bet you are beautiful =)
You need to remember that whoever yuo are sleeping with KNOWS HOW YOUR BUILT. Your clothes don't hide much when it comes to your curves, ***, chest and so on.
So think that when it comes time "He obviously finds me beautiful, he is here with me and wants to make love to me and my body"
LOL I GOTTA LAUGH- at the people who are asking your age, then lecturing on re marital sex. This is not your place people, not to mention i disagree whole heartedly on the pre marital thing. This is a question from a woman looking for advice on accepting her body not on whether she should be doing it in the first place. Her question wasnt a chance for you to jimp on your soap box.
2006-11-19 10:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by Aphrodite 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Walk around your home naked for an hour every day. Just get used to being in your skin and nothing else. Hope this helps... good luck honey.
2006-11-19 10:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by ginyamarie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are not married then you shouldn't be doing it w/ anybody. But if you are married then you shouldn't be self conscious b/c this man married you and loves you for who you are. My next suggestion since you are obviously not married is that you learn to love yourself before you try loving someone else. Your issues about being naked show you are not happy w/ yourself. I used to be chunky and lost 60 lbs. so I know! And the only reason you want to do it with all these guys is b/c you are not satisfied w/ yourself. You are seeking self approval by the number of men who want you and damaging your reputation by being "loose' will only make it worse. Start by losing the weight that is making you unhappy and then find a guy who likes you for you and quit doing it until you get married!
2006-11-19 10:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by shirley 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
it shouldnt matter ,if your there with the person you love that it dosnt matter
2006-11-19 10:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by john1313nap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋