i was in love...and then igot pregnant,as a christian i ddnt want to av an abortion,so we kept t...and he ws happy as well,his parents found out then the drama started...they told me they wanted nothing to with t..that iwas not good enough for thier son...al the same he was there for me since i was in their country and i had gone there to visit hm for 4months.then he changed..he started hiting me,calin me names,now am 6months pregnant hez left me he told me he doesnt love me anymore...am finding it hard to breath as my parents dont wanna hear or help me...ma family say bad tings to me because they wanted me to have an abortion since since the boys family have denied me but i refused because its wrong...am so angry i just wish i could forget but i cant coz everyday i live...he stil the father of my child...but i want to get away from this horrible dream....what can i do to forgive and forget... he texts me once aday when i get the text i cry..wil i be wrong to tell him to leave me alone
2006-11-19 02:31:31 · 4 answers · asked by gsingini 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You played adult when you had sex, do the adult thing and give the child up for adoption. Ask for you parents forgiveness, go to school, get an education, grow up, and then worry about relationships.
Until then get smart, don't have unprotected sex and find yourself in the same situation all over again.
2006-11-19 02:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a financial responsibility to this baby. He wanted to play, now too bad, but he has to pay. You can tell him that financial support is all he needs to do. Tell him that you both need to see an attorney (he pays) to work out the details. If he won't, you get an attorney. I'm sorry that you feel so stranded, but you have chosen the baby (good for you), and that baby is your priority. Best of luck. It'll be hard for a while, but someday, your child and you will be extremely happy.
2006-11-19 02:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your text number for one. YOU are BETTER than that to be hit and called dirty names when you have given him a child.
IF your pregnant again, others can't tell you what to do, but you would be best to give it up for adoption. You have your hands full as it is.
You will have the time to love the baby you already have.
When you can learn to take care of yourself and the baby, you will be more in a position to find a loving careing man.
2006-11-19 03:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 05:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋