I live with a man that I don't want to spend the rest of my life with. I love his two teenage daughters but I don't love him. I like him a lot. I lost the love when I found nude pictures of his ex-wife saved on his laptop. Plus, he has kept a porno movie of her in his porn collection. I don't trust him anymore even though I forgave him. Now I have met someone else and want to date him. However, right now I can't afford to move because I don't make a lot on my job and I have a 3yr old daughter who is not his, but he has accepted her. What should I do?
2006-11-19 02:12:20 · 6 answers · asked by SoftSpoken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Pack your suitcase and walk out the door, and don't look back. He is stuck in his past, and refuses to put it behind him.
2006-11-19 02:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by boots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to spend the rest of your life with this person I suggest you get out ASAP. You do not want to continue to waste time. I personally think that finding nude pictures is not a valid reason to stop loving someone so perhaps you should evaluate that first. I do not think it is wise to get out of one relationship and jump into another especially if you are talking serious relationships. This is unwise. Take some time to see who you are first. Don't espect men to be perfect you will be hurt everytime. Find a place of your own and spend some time concentrating on what is importand in a relationship. Work on yourself before you bring someone else into your life. You also have to consider your daughter you do not want to confuse her by having too many strangers in her life.
2006-11-19 02:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Future 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep you have been precise to depart. being pregnant has no longer something to do with the relationship you have or don't have. it extremely is not going to make him a extra suitable companion, and in certainty will probable make it much harder for him to be truthful. And at the instant he's a liar, a cheat, and deceitful. All women individuals say they're going to depart in the event that they seize their guy cheating. We not often do. And worse every time we take them back we confirm that it extremely is okay to cheat bc we can save taking them back. My wager is which you're actually not executed with this relationship. you will circulate back lower back and you gets harm lower back. this could happen until you ultimately get sturdy adequate to truly say stable bye. walk away at the same time as you nevertheless have your dignity.
2016-11-25 19:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your plans to get out and do that. Then you will be free. Talk to who ever about asistence. You know food stamps and section 8 housing. the resources are there if you can figure out how to use them. I don't know about this stuff but my brother and his family do. You pay taxes use the benifts. Go talk to family and children services and see what you need to do to get them.
2006-11-19 02:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be upfront and honest about it.
2006-11-19 02:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring hsi two daughters for the orgy and then orgy with your new dominatrix!
2006-11-19 02:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by SpermGuzzler 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋