It's been over three months, Isn't that enough... The last time I didn't have closure it took almost 4 years to finally find complete relief and I don't think I could handle another 4 years of suffering to my heart over this and fight on a daily basis just to cope and not cry anymore, I feel like i'm slowly going out of my mind and don't know what to do.... At times I think it's just stupid and everythings fine and then at other times i'm wanting to scream and feel like i'm dieing inside... I just wish I could forget but can't seem to and really honestly believed and still do that this person was my soulmate and I gave this person my whole heart and I can't seem to get it back and feel like i'm trapped in hell... I just wish I could cut the memory out and not have to suffer anymore, it's killing me.
2006-11-19 01:53:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you mean..sorta like that movie Eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind...great movie with Jim Carrey and Kate winslet. He was so in love with her..it broke his heart not to be with her so he goes to a dr. who helps him erase all the memories of her out of his mind..if u havent seen it - rent it. Maybe it will relieve u! =) Feel better!
2006-11-19 01:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well closure as you already know takes times and depending on the seriousness of the relationship u may never completely have closure I myself believe u never really stop loving or having feelings for a past lover you just learn to live without them and the heartaches of that relationship, over time all wounds heal and it will get easier and you'll be able to look back and maybe feel blessed that your not with that person anymore just hang in there..my prayers and thoughts are with you its never easy even when its the right thing to do..cherish the memories there was a reason for the time you spent together and it only made u a better person...
2006-11-19 10:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by c_sev 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would like to cut out the memory of many things, but that is not really the best idea. If we did not have the unpleasant memories we may repeat the same mistakes over and over. We learn from our mistakes because they are so unpleasant. Eventually the pain eases and you get back to a normal life. The lesson learned will stay with you and help you make better choices later.
2006-11-19 09:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋