Me and this guy who i havent known for long arranged a date, he had to cancel as his ex let him have access to his son for the wkend as he had not seen him in four months as he had been away. i completly understood but was also gutted about this., his ex is married now.
he said for the next two weeks he is busy so we will go out after that, he texts me alot and is very nice to me and seems like he likes me very much, i asked him if he liked me and he said that he really really likes me but im just unsure as he seems to give out mixed signals. maybe its just me i dont know??
2006-11-19 01:11:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry but it's you. Buy what you have said he definantly cares for you a great deal. I wouldn't worry to much if I was you.
2006-11-19 02:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You haven't known him long so I would not put all of your efforts into this guy but in the same respect, you cannot expect him to yet be in a state of mind where he drops everything to be with you. This guy sounds like he has a lot of baggage that you will probably have to contend with if the relationship goes further. My advice to you is to revisit the possibility of a date in a few weeks when he is not so busy and see how far you get with that. If he is still making excuses as to why you can't get together, it is probably a safe bet that he is not interested in dating at this time and you should move on. In the mean time, think about his situation and decide whether or not you want to be involved with somebody who has a child with another woman. Remember, they are a package deal. Depending on where you are with your life you may not want to share your man's attention. Good luck!
2006-11-19 09:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by CAITLIN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give the bloke in question a chance. I doubt he would be texting you a lot if he didnt like you. It could be a genuine excuse - being busy for a couple of weeks isnt that uncommon. So if i were you i would give him the 2 weeks and see what happens. If after the 2 weeks he doesn't say anything about going out, maybe bring it up, if he is stillmaking excuses i would personally move on and forget about it.
You sound like an understanding decent girl as you were fine about him having to cancel for the sake of his son, so i really hope that he does like you and isnt messing you around. Just remember that not all blokes are idiots that mess us ladies around. Give him a couple of weeks.
Fingers crossed for you!!!!
2006-11-19 09:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by kerrybv 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When couples first meet and start to date, there are often no obstacles to their relationship, however, you are considering dating a man who has a child and an ex.
Things will not be the same. It is right that he takes the time to see his child. That relationship is important to him, as it should be.
If you were my daughter, I would ask you to consider carefully what you do next.
If you carry on seeing this man, things will be the same - he may choose to see his child when he could be seeing you , and as time goes on you may be included in those times, but you will never have him to yourself.
Consider though, if you decide to stay with him, the better father he is to that child, especially with your help and encouragement, the better father he would be to any children you have with him in the future.
Consider carefully, Good Luck!
2006-11-19 09:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance! It sounds like he does like you, he's just busy. There's not going to be that much between you yet if you haven't even gone out on a date. If he keeps putting you off after the two weeks, then maybe he's gone off you. But for now, just trust him that he's busy!
2006-11-19 09:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly think he does,but he might just be busy. If u still haven't gone on a date in 2 weeks i would let him go. Maybe right now he needs to focus on his kid. But i bet he likes u a lot!
2006-11-19 09:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by jkwm04 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At a guess I would suggest he doesn't really know how he feels. If he were really interested he'd make time. You may be in danger of becoming subservient to his agenda. I suggest you cut free of him and find someone else. Now is better than later when you might have invested more of yourself into a relationship with him
2006-11-19 09:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he might like you alot but it might be a case of once bitten twice shy, i would say give him a chance he could well be tellin the truth. But how do you realy feel about him and do you trust him cuause if not it aint gonna go anywhere anyway
2006-11-19 10:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him! If someone loves you there is usually never any doubt or mixed signals in the relationship.
2006-11-19 09:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is giving out mixed signals then he may be involved with someone else.
2006-11-19 09:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋