i used 2 go out wivv dis boy n evryfin was absoulutely perfect n he wasnt just my bf he waz also 1 ov my best mates..n then we split up coz we dint c enuff ov each ova n now wen i went 2 my best mates house last nyt 4 a sleepova n a piss up :P lol he was ther n then he asked me 2 get bak wivv him n i sed yeh..he fingered me n now im just startin 2 fink he used me coz he wantd sum action last nyt... help me.....but i rele rele lyk him. :(
2006-11-19 01:11:21 · 22 answers · asked by Leiia_//x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHAT?????
2006-11-19 01:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by jo d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he was just glad to have you back. I think the only way you'll find out is to just give it time. If he doesn't call you, then yeah, he's probably an idiot. Otherwise just carry on as a couple and if you're still worried tell him you want to take it slow. Which is not bad advice anyway, I don't mean to sound rude but from your writing style I'm guessing you can't be more than 15, am I right? Plenty of time for alcohol and sex when you're at least over the age of consent!
2006-11-19 09:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather you really like him or not is not what you need to be looking at here. Your self respect is what you should be worried about. If he doesn't want to go the whole ten yards and commit to you then you shouldn't let him have an inch. If he knows your going to let him get away with it he will continue to use you for his pleasures and not care when it hurts you in the end. I wouldn't go back and let him have anything untill he could prove to you over a period of time that you and him are going to be together in a commitment and then MAYBE you can discuss the bonuses of being together. Stand strong in this and protect yourself thats what matters most
2006-11-19 09:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by crazy b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a little more self respect.... You are selling yourself short and making yourself look cheap and easy...
A relationship is just that, relations between 2 people, seeing one another, talking, enjoying, having fun and doing things together... If you have the need to get with everyboy who gives you some attention, you had better give your head a shake and get real..
"Using you" isn't a strong enough verb to state what he did last night to you.... The relationship with love and respect comes first, then the other activities.......not the other way around...
2006-11-19 09:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't understand most of what you wrote. Can you write clearer and I will answer. But from what I could read it sounds like he was using you. Unless you still keep in contact with each other. Other than that I can't really help sorry.
2006-11-19 10:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, he's using you for action, dump him and find a man who treats you right and likes you all the time, not just when he wants some.
2006-11-19 09:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Michael M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he was using you because he was needing something at the time. I feel that most of all you should do only the things that you want to do and therfore you can never be used because it satisfied your needs and desires at the time. Never do something just to please someone else if you are unsure of the reason.
2006-11-19 10:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Future 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I understood you correctly (difficult with your bad English!) it sounds like he's using you. However if you WANTED to be fingered and enjoyed it then you were probably just using each other....
2006-11-19 10:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by adamseymourdavies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he was using you, he wouldnt have just fingered you. he would have made you w@nk him or blow him. i dont think he is using you as it was just a one night thing, if he kept calling you and saying lets meet and then have a sh@g then go, yes thats using you.
Just hold back a bit morehe might even think its just a bit of fun, and you are fine with that.
Just talk to him. xXx
2006-11-19 09:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
young lady balls to everyone else deriding you for your lack of english usuage and grammer. if the young man fingered you and your unsure what he wants its obvious hes a budding musician and wanted to practise his flute playing. for gods sake don't be his oboe if you do make sure you have toothbrush at hand.
2006-11-19 10:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is using you and you damn well know it too. However, you are letting your heart prevail over your mind, which may prove costly at the end.
2006-11-19 09:20:41 · answer #11 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋