this girl and i really likes each other so so much. we only express it oustide. i love her and she told me she loves me 2. she has this best friend of hers who also likes me for about 5 months and now she is stressing about her best friend and about something els, but she wont tell me..now her friendship with her are kinda like falling apart and it really hurts me so bad to see that happen cuz shes also my bestfriend. she ask her best friend if she good date me and she aproved but they dont really talk like the way they use too..i havent ask this girl out becuz there is so much problems in the way.. now she is stress and frustrated about this and she ask for some space and i now im giving her some.. how much space should i give her?? im just really afraid that she might let go of me and give up..can anyone help me or give me some advice?? pls
2006-11-19 01:08:00 · 4 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, i think that you just have to wait. if you really love her, you would fight for her and continue your relationship no matter what the obstacles are. if she loves you that much too, then im sure she wouldn't give up on you. and if the girl's best friend is a REAL friend, then she would be happy for her.
never be afraid to take risks. if you love her, then go for it. =)
2006-11-19 01:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by rockmyworld101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how close is she and her bestfriend..If I were you, don t talk to her about this subject cos you are in no place to advice her.What I mean is you can listen to her if she wants to talk about it but don t pressure her or give her advice. Just empathize with her.Let her solve this on her own.If she really loves you she will stick with you.Still go out with her and act like everything is normal.Im talking from experience. I have two bestfriends whom I am very very close to.My bestfriend and I have a pact that any guys that my friend is interested or love is so off limits.So if her friend is a true friend to your gf then she will forget all about you and move on.It could happen that she would favour her bestfriend over you. In that case i guess you just have to move on bacause then maybe her feelings towards you are not that strong after all..I hope everything will work out for you :)
2006-11-19 09:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by GIna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on man,how old are you ? Give your 'girl',all the 'space',she wants,she (as well as you!),are very confused.If her friend is 'her' friend she will back-off(from both of you).And if you want your 'girl',to be with you;humble yourself,get tight with your job or school,don't date anyone else. . etc.When your 'girl' gets her 'head' on straight (and you too!),she'll get back with you. Conversation will un-lock any 'door',closed by suspicion !
2006-11-19 09:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Neo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she dont want more space its just the oposite,,cuz she feeling afraid of the connection u have with this other girl
2006-11-19 09:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋