I am returning soldier and have no skills to find a girl friend. I have been back from war for years now and still have not been able to get a steady girlfreind. Would like some one to stay with me for more than a week. What is the trick to getting a nice decent average weight girlfriend who has some intillect and concern for the life on earth and it's issues at hand that I can talk with about current issues and concerns???
2006-11-19 00:36:05 · 7 answers · asked by I made this! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would suggest 'hand puppet' girlfriends. They are always nearby and can always be convinced to do your bidding. You don't have to spend any extra money on gifts and dinners. You can talk at length about any subject without them interrupting. Plus, they won't talk back about things you don't care about and they will show you love and affection (if you know what I mean...) at your whim. They stay by your side and don't take up too much room in your bed.
Nah, I'm kidding ya. Probably need to join a singles website, or singles social club. Good luck.
2006-11-19 00:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Building a relationship takes work. Love doesn't just happen. You need to become friends first and build on the trust you have for each other.
Perhaps you are projecting negative vibes. Write down your positive and negative points. Ask your close friends and family to evaluate you as a boy friend. If there are any glaring negatives, work to change those habits.
You won't find a girlfriend in a bar. Church, club and community activities are good places to meet friends. Enroll in some night courses and develop a hobby.
Your question states, "with the least amount of effort". If this is your thinking, it shows that you are lazy about love and expect that love is your right. Life doesn't work that way.
Change your attitude and love may find you.
2006-11-19 08:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by ne11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should get some help since you dont have any luck with women, maybe there is something about you that is making them not want to be around you. If you just want a women to move in with you, then you wont find a decent one ! I hope you are not spending all your time talking about the war times with women, they dont want to here that, they want to have fun and enjoy life, not talk about death.
2006-11-19 08:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those kind of girls aren't easy to find. If you want a girl like that you're going to have to work for her. You can't expect perfection to just fall in your lap. The best I can say for you is keep looking and be willing to put forth some effort.
Good luck.
2006-11-19 08:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by StarlightRedemption 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in gods name do you need skill..what happened to being yourself and giving someone something to be attracted to..why is it a game that requires talent...im puzzled...i would think with how old you are you would be more than a bit experienced with who you are. try getting interested in something you can share with others. a hobby a club or whatever. love happens generally when your not looking for it.
2006-11-19 08:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! u have high expectations,while get to noe HER while attending talks on concern for the life on earth.PPL who attend these talks are normally decent
2006-11-19 08:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by No name?! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you got a lot of $$$, there shouldn't be any problem.
2006-11-19 08:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋