mother -in-laws!?

Question

my mother-in-law is so rude! on the day i had my baby she talked s!@$ about me to every one there. i asked every one to be quite so i could consentrate on my labor pains and they were quite all exept her. she kept her cell phone on and would not be quite when asked instead made rude remarks! and after i had the baby i was tired so i was resting and i kept hearing this annoying clicking noise that wouldnt stop, i opend my eyes and she was clicking in the babys face and swinging around like a lunatic! i told her to stop and she gave me a dirty look and kept doing it!!! and she kept trying to call my baby different names because she didnt like the ones we chose. and way before all of this she was late to our wedding by like 45 minutes! ugh! SO MY QUESTION IS WHAT IS YOUR WORST MOTHER-IN-LAW STORY?

my husband doesnt like to say anything to her because he wants to make everyone happy. i told him the only person he is making happy is his mother! hes gotten a little better though. and why didnt i call anurse in the hospital......i was still all drowsie from the medacine they gave me, i was still kindof out of it,lol.

and whats really bad is that my sister in law is like my mom in laws goon, so when one is mad they both gang up on me! thank god i dont have to see them everyday.

Answer 1

Worst mother in law story, my is when my ex got put in jail for sleeping with a minor, and my ex mother in law said it was my fault because I turned him in. I haven't talked to her since, and have divorced my ex. That was my fault too. She would call every hour of the day...sometimes nite too...just to ask what we were doing. I finally had the phone turned off and then she would just show up....that woman was crazy.

Answer 2

i was one of the lucky few that had a mother in law that was wonderful. even though her son and i split she and i still talk and get along great. my question is why the heck was she in the room during your labor? she should have been sent out by the nursing staff. i suggest your husband getting some balls and standing up to her and asking her what the hell her problem is. you are his wife and part of that family whether she likes it or not. if she can't respect you then she doesn't need to be around your child babies and children pick up on that stuff and it will affect the respect given to you by your child. it's not fair to your child or you once your child gets older because i'm sure she will be saying things about you to your child also. it's not healthy mentally for the child to be around someone like her.

Answer 3

my husband and I had 2 weddings 1 1/2 yrs ago. One in west coast and one in East coast (his families lives there). We had his mom help talk to the priest and plan for the church wedding.. One wk before the wedding in East coast we flew there and find out nothing done. She didn't talk to the priest nor arrange anything. We had to take care of everything on the last mins. All she did was complain about all the stuff we did. She said she could of done a better job than me. She also said I didn't look very pretty for the West coast wedding for spend so much money on it. I really wanted to slap her. I didn't say nothing back to her. My husband got so feed up with her and just told her to shut up. He had never been rude nor ever talk back to her. But this time he had it. He was so frustrated w/ her not helping out the wedding but instead critizing us. Its been awhile now and I still remember every word she said. I have no respect for her. Glad she doesn't live closeby.

Answer 4

You should of made them leave. If you were able to tell them to stop, you were able to tell them to leave hun.

In a time like that, I would of grown some balls since your husband has none.

You are first now and he knows what his mother was doing to you was wrong. The point is he was allowing or it the situation would of been solved by telling her to respect or get out.

I have zero tolerance for behavior like that from anyone, including future in laws.

My future mother in law and I get along just because she knows I won't stand for something and neither does my fiance. I don't agree how she parents. If I don't want her telling me how to parent, I won't tell her how to parent. I am the only girl he has ever dated she has truly liked as her own daughter. So, have to pick your battles. This would of been a battle I would of made sure she knew how I felt if I was in your situation.

Answer 5

Don't have the worst story--Just the worst Mother-in-law.
She waited 3 years after we were married to give us a wedding gift. She was hopping her son would smarten up and divorce me before she had to buy us a gift. (now that's rude) We have been married for 28 years, and his parents still make comments that he could still divorce me. I guess thats why we now live almost 1000 miles away from them. They have 9 other kids, but I am still a terrible person for taking their son away....

Answer 6

LOL I love ur story, I am from a different religion and my in laws did not want me in their family period. before I was married she tried to break us up but did not succeed. I got married after I accepted all her demands and to accept their religion and change my ame and so forth I did everything she asked me to do: she was thinking If she pressured me I will back off but I just loved to see her looser face. So we got married and stayed under the same roof for a year and mind me no one in the household would talk to me or eat anything I layed my hands on.. We saved up money and moved out...after a year they started coming around and now it has been 4yrs since we got married and my husband has always backed me up on every step of the way and he does not ever let his sisters or mother talk to me rudely in any way he would fight with them for my rights. anyways now my mother in law is my best friend she appologised for what she had done and we are very close to each other.
well for me it started bad but ended in a good way.
hope things get better for you....

Answer 7

When your in a hospital you can decide who you want to see.. you should have called the nurse to ask her to leave and if she would not, the nurse would have called security to escort her out of the room.
Where is your husband? is he too wimpy to tell her to back off?
He has a new family now and its time for him to stand up for his wife and child!
Unless she has a zillion dollars and your inheriting, see if you and your husband can transfer to some place that will cost her money to drive or fly too..

Answer 8

Why did you or your husband not through her out?
And, you really don't want to hear "worst" mother-in-law stories.
Just concentrate on your problem and how to solve it.
Stay away from her - ask your husband to support you -
and pray, that some day your mother-in-law will need your
help and you will be there for her.

Answer 9

Oh my word...Thats just aweful..I dont have one to tell b/c I have never had a mother-in-law that hated me. My ex mother in law was very caring about me. included me in the family from the start and now that her son and I have divorced she still includes me for the sake of my son and never gives me dirty looks and respects my wishes..

I am sorry yours in not cooporating..dont let it drive a wedge between you and your husband..be strong and remember when she is in your house its YOUR rules not hers..everytime she calls your baby by the wrong name--correct her..she has no right to try and re-name your baby..if she doesnt want to respect you then let her know she is not welcome in your house. she dont have to love you or even like you but you ARE married to her son and you NEED to be respected as she does by you..

Answer 10

where was your husband when she was doing this in the hospital. i had a similar prob with one of my boyfriends mom. she use to think i was using him and i was stuck up and some other crap. after we broke up and he married some other chick she'd call me up saying her son should have married me and how much she loved me and ow she hates her daughter inlaw. tell your husband to get a back bone. he's supposed to be on yourside no matter what. where would he like the peace to be, at home with you or living with his mom again?