....and she turned you down for personal reasons (hers) but said she really liked you and would still like to see you again, what would you do?
2006-11-19 00:33:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I was any type of friend I would stick buy her and still see her. If not then the person is not worth knowing.
2006-11-19 02:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What could you do? If she doesn't want a relationship, she doesn't want a relationship. I imagine the guy would walk away.
Relationships of any sort don't usually work unless both people want the same thing. If the guy wants to be involved romantically and the woman does, it is bound to hurt - no matter what the reasons.
Alot of people thing it is best to end these sorts of situations as soon as possible. I'm in a similar situation, and I've chosen to stay friends, but it hurts rather a lot af a huge part of me is forever wondering if he will ever be ready to be with me. Sometimes it is easier to walk away, and not have the constant worry about where things are going.
2006-11-19 08:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a woman or a man might say that to let you down gently. Or it is that they do not want a relationship with out their total commitment which is commendible. They may feel unable to commit emotionally for now but if the strenght of feeling was there it would not be a matter for thought...is that making sense. She surely does like you, wants you around maybe but does not want you solely.
I would think long and hard about hovering about waiting for her to make up her mind if it is you she wants or if she has what she considers a better offer. Alternatively she could have someone else in mind and waiting to see if they come up trumps.
2006-11-19 08:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd stick with her for a while and always with the hope that whatever her reasons for turning me down in the past might change and we might get to get together as a couple.If i really fancied the pants off her i would'nd be able to put up with her seeing someone else,so if she went off with someone else id just have to not see her anymore or kill her!
2006-11-19 08:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, try to be friends and have no hard feelings. Some things are just not meant to be.
2006-11-19 08:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Birdie2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think I was being rejected politely, not risk the same rejection again
2006-11-19 08:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sid B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I wouldnt ask you again.
If you like this guy now and your free from what was stopping you before go ask him out,dont be shy :)
Good luck.
2006-11-19 08:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her for reason's behind not wanting a relationship. why you wan't to get to know someone, who has no interest in you. it's sound's immature
2006-11-19 14:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by russellhamuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 4 her if u really really like her n try to understand her plight,girls perfer guys to be more understanding.
2006-11-19 08:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by No name?! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends...is a good start....good way for her to learn about your good qualitie's...and maybe change her mind ..in the distant future..!!..
2006-11-19 08:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋