Any advise? It is really hard for me to trust him. I feel he will do it again. I have never been in a relationship with someone who has been so unfaithful. When it happen, I question myself and my ability to please him. He stated it didn't have anything to do with that. He did it because he could. He claims he is in love with me. How can you be in love with someone and cheat on them on 3 different occasion?
2006-11-19 00:26:07 · 14 answers · asked by carmela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Short answer...you can't.....my belief...once a cheater...always a cheater. If you truly love someone, you don't conciously hurt them. What he is doing is thinking about himself only and not caring about your feelings or the consequences of his actions. If he is so willing to risk losing you by cheating ...why would you want to stay. Find a man who you can trust and who will treat you as you should be treated...without trust there is no love! Good luck
2006-11-19 00:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl cut your losses while you are still a head. He sounds like a player. He will tell you everything you want to hear and probably charm the pants off you. He will cheat again believe me. Every time you let him get a way with it he will do it again. Don't be a Door Matt. Stand up for yourself.
Find a decent guy who will love you and only you.
2006-11-19 08:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure do have advice! He cheated on you 3 times that you know about and will do it again. He is not in love with you because he loves himself so much there is no love left for you. Please stop seeing him immediately! You should have some respect for yourself and not let anyone treat you like that. You deserve so much better. Get rid of him and have a happy life. You will meet a decent man and wonder why you stayed so long with this low life.
2006-11-19 08:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a man only gets away with what you allow him to so if he cheated on you three times then taht's not LOVE I don't know what that is so most likely he is going to do it agian and when he does you have to leave him to teach him a lesson and if he really loves you then he will change.
2006-11-19 08:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by csmndaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite his statement that he will never cheat again, he CAN'T stop cheating on you. He's addicted to pursuing the next conquest.
You CAN'T love someone and cheat on them 3 occasions. So your next move should be far, far away from him and godspeed.
2006-11-19 08:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that once a cheater, always a cheater. because they know you will take them back. they aren't getting punished for their actions. he probably does love you but love means nothing without respect, and that he definitely doesn't have. he will do it again because you aren't doing anything about it. next time, i would leave him. he needs to learn that he can't hurt people like that.
2006-11-19 08:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have let him know in your actions after he has cheated 3 times, that he can get away with it a 4th time
that isnt love,
dump him
2006-11-19 09:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you dont trust him, because you know what ive been through this myself and with myfriends and each time i have been right. once a liar and cheeter ALWAYS. sorry to break it to you. hes not good no matter how much you wanna think hell change he wont.
2006-11-19 08:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by caitlyn h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him now! when a man cheats it has nothing to do with the woman, look at all the sexy sexy hollywood women, if they can't keep a cheatin' dog from cheatin' nobody can
2006-11-19 08:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Zita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work with guys who treat women like queens to get them, then once they did, they run around with other women and treat them like crap.They will always do it, and always will no matter what.
2006-11-19 08:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋