i think i am not a good looking guy , everybody just ignoring me , so can i do?

Question

from my childhood day everybody just ignoring me because i am not a good looking guy. but everytime i complete my duty to them, but nobody do their duties to me ,sometimes i get very bad feeling to them, then i thought they are my relatives and my friends so i used to do my duty to them,

Answer 1

Walk around in the nude, they will notice you then.

Answer 2

Hey do you know a TV Serial called Jassi Jaise Koi Nahin, in that Jassi also looks very ugly kind of a female, but see the friends arround her, yes true they use her, but a friend in need is a friend in deed.

The moral of the story is simple never think that you are not looking good guy, just think that you are always right on your part and they are your friends, some day they would recognise you among them and you would be happy than ever before,just take things positive never give negative thoughts to come in u r brain.

Answer 3

Never suffer from the illusion that you are being ignored for your looks. Its not your looks but your actions and behaviour which count in the long run.
It is indeed unfortunate that people for whom you do your duty, take it for granted. While it isn't ideal, still ordinary mortals that we are, we expect some reciprocity, at least a token "thank you" for doing our duty. The people who benefit from your dutifulness are however expected to feel obliged to recognise your services and reciprocate accordingly.
But if you heed my advice my dear friend, please continue to do your duty as you have selflessly done till now. Even if others disregard your services to them, God surely will not overlook those and you will be suitably rewarded. Take comfort in that belief and don't despair or deviate from your avowed path.

Answer 4

Hey. I dont think that your issue has anything to do with your looks. If you want people to notice you, you have to draw positive attention towards yourself. Say what you feel as long as its not disrespectful, and dont care what anyone else thinks. Make sure you smile once in awhile. People are usually pay more attention to people who are confident and happy about themselves. If you would be more open, I'm sure people would love you. About the duties part, you kinda have high exceptations. You have to admit even though you want everything to revolve around you, it doesn't. If people are not doing their duties to you, it is not because of how you look...it is because they are buzy with things in their life. I hope this helps.

Answer 5

properly i'm a woman and there's a guy that's ok i in many circumstances only have crushes on men who or wow u be attentive to yet as quickly as I observed this guy's personalty i fell for him he consistently smilled exchange into confident variety and by no skill concept he exchange into gruesome he consistently develop his head extreme and that i could suggust u deliver a peice of paper desirable the excellent issues approximately u and instruct ur personallty dont attempt to faux to be some one else i'm 14 so at this age we basically care approximately looks yet while a stable guy comes no rely how he looks we each so often fall for them and don't question why they overlook approximately u say its stable that they don't tease me or like not consult with me stable success my words have been very trustworthy do not think of i'm only asserting this cuz i've got confidence sorry or something

Answer 6

dear you are the one who have to start ignoring people who cares about your look cause they are empty inside themselve, you should trust your self more and start to know how to love you more than just thinking how people see you, as a women i always thought that ladies only they have to look nice and pretty but concerning men i dont think its not important to be good looking, women always care about man and there behaviours cause some men are good looking but they act like girls you cant depend on them to do anything for you, so the man is not a look, the man who really act like a man who can take care of his family and his women,who can finish his work and have a home, i have a frind and he is very daer to me he is not a good looking man at all, but i love him so much cause the beauty inside himself was coverning his out look,he act like a real man who can any one depand on him, and you will never belive alot of friends around him and alot of pretty girls wants to be with him and he is the one who is ignoring them, see he have a high confidance in him self, be your self and ignore any one ignore you and act in a manly way, and you will see how people will attract to you, god bless you dear

Answer 7

It sounds like that Monty Python bit about the guy who was so regularly ignored, he was convinced he was invisible. In the end, he DID turn invisible. My advice is to watch more Monty Python, if only to learn to write English better.

Answer 8

hey dude, never give up and just believe in your self because self confidence is essential to succeed. and well your nature and actions matters more than your external beauty,so don't think negative about ur looks, i m also not a good looking person but i have so many frns and everybody appriciates me and my work, just because i have self confidence, god has given us a beautyfull life to enjoy not to destroy.ok. so get up and improve your self confidence.

Answer 9

Do not give-up. Somebody, somewhere, will develop interest in you, but, be free and forget about self-condemnation.

Answer 10

you think your not good looking or your actually not? cause I've seen guys that are not good looking but still have friends (they are not good looking either) but you're probably aiming way to high...