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Theres this guy i like who worked in the same office as me but recently moved into the office next door which is still connected. I really like him and i think he likes me. The thing is i dont know how we will get together. Ive seen other people round the office who worked together and then changed offices so they became a couple while out on a works do and i wish it could happen for me. I know people say ask him out but i am quite a sensitive being and dont know how i would take to being rejected. I understand we couldnt be together while working in same room but now hes moved i hope it will help the situation. The thing is i have started to talk to him a lot,laugh at his jokes etc to show im interested but were never alone long enough to find out how we feel about one another. We have alot in common family life, music, comedy and what were like personality wise so i cant see it not working any pointers would be appreciated and do workdos help?

2006-11-19 00:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Jo S 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Since you already speak to him, you should invite him out for drinks or lunch then you can get to know each other better and then maybe he will ask you out.

2006-11-19 00:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

You could try leaving the office building the same time as him, during lunch or after work. Once you both are out of the office building, it'll be easier to extend an invitation to a meal or outing. If you are worried about rejection, then wait for him to make the first move. If he does, then it means he really likes you. If he doesn't, then maybe he's got some other commitment elsewhere.

2006-11-19 00:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0 1

The easiest thing to do is to invite him out with a group of friends one evening so it doesn't feel like a date. Keep it friendly in the beginning and quiet. If to many people found out that you like him they could interfere by teasing you or him and all magic could be lost. he is interested in you if he tells you jokes and what not. Keep it alive see where it goes.

2006-11-19 00:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Work do's can help as you have a drink and it makes you more confident! do you have his mobile number? if so txt him, if not try find a casual way of getting it!
Just go for it, what have you got to loose? gud luck x

2006-11-19 00:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by red devil 3 · 0 1

Align your lunch to go with his, then see if he wants to eat you, er, with you. i'm sure he likes you too, seeing as you get along so well. Exchange phone numbers. Lean up against his crotch when you're in a tight area like an elevator full of people. Make a rubbing movement like you mean too, but you dont want him to know you mean to. He'll jump on you.

2006-11-19 00:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

Men are dumb. We don't think your "laughing at jokes" means you want to get together. Don't give subtle hints.

2006-11-19 00:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Abu 5 · 0 2

ASK HIM IF HE TAKES IT UP THE BUM ?IF SO, INVITE HIM OUT

2006-11-19 03:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by ste53 3 · 0 0

ask him out!
just go for it...

2006-11-19 00:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by sarah_roo03 4 · 1 2

Well im sorry to say i know the guy and he cant stand you he says you stink

2006-11-19 00:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 7

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