OK my friend has an std he's been with this girl for about two months ofcourse he's got to tell her before they have sex right but how, if she truely loves him would she still leave or say omg
2006-11-12 04:33:19 · 14 answers · asked by David R 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
it is HVP GW
2006-11-12 04:47:00 · update #1
IT IS HPV GW
2006-11-12 04:48:38 · update #2
Your "friend" needs to be honest with this girl. Yes of course there is a chance she will go "OMG" and end the relationship. If that is the case then maybe she isn't ready to be serious. Make sure that your "friend" is informed about the STD and what the complications are of it. If he can inform her about it and answer her questions then she will be less likley to have a problem. Just be honest with her. Tell her there is something to talk about in private that is important. Make sure that its not right before something is about to happen. Good luck.
2006-11-12 04:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by sukesgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe the numbers of young people who have STDs, only because of being careless and not using condoms. You do not realize how much this is going to affect your lives forever. You make decisions that are not in your best interest. STDs weaken your immunity making it easier to contact HIV/AIDS. This girl you are interested in, may not want you why she finds out, and who could blame her. This will be something that you will have to deal with the rest of your life. How do I know? I was given herpes by my ex-husband. Now I have various health problems because of it. I no longer date because of the stigma that is attached to having to tell the other person I`m interested in that I have herpes. To the young persons who read this, please at all costs use condoms when you have sex. I was married at the time, and I still contacted herpes through no fault of my own. This same thing can happen to you, as some hide the fact that they are infected.
2006-11-12 09:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the STD is and how old they are.
At this point in the relationship love is not important when her life/health is concerned.
She should also get some information from a professional before she decides to have sex....this is not something to let the heart decide.
2006-11-12 04:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is not it may nicely be. try to be operating in route of probability-free sex. in case you had done that contained in the first position perhaps you does not have an std. humorous you positioned this in ethics once you of route do not look to have any. questioning about it i trust that is a criminal offense to knowingly transmit an std.
2016-11-29 01:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to tell her especially if its a life threatening STD..This is another human beings life your talking about. If she cares for him she will stand by his side, Just make sure they use protected sex at all expenses.
2006-11-12 04:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it your friend or is it you?? Everybody deserves to know the truth. You could really get yourself in legal trouble if you choose to not let somebody know something that could possibly affect their health like AIDS. Wouldn't you like to know if the shoe was on the other foot?
http://scc.uchicago.edu/talk_partner_STI.htm
2006-11-12 07:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by goddessbella77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz u gotta luv urself first (health) if she leaves she has a right to and a right to know it is a crime to knowingly give an std to someone without telling them
2006-11-12 04:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by lex1979x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her. If the dumb *** that gave it to your friend would have told him she had it would he have stayed with her? Hopefully she will be smart and save herself from possible cancer in the future and find someone that doesnt come with diseases.
2006-11-12 05:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should just tell th girl straight out that he has it, or he could loose the girls trust as if he tells her later then she could wonder what else he is hiding from her. if she is a good girlfriend then she should understand and give him her support. ♥b♥
2006-11-12 04:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by bxiok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's best for him to just tell her straight out, i'm sure she won't just leave him if she truly loves him, it shouldn't make too much of a difference, they can always adopt a kid, and you don't neccesarily need to have sex.
2006-11-12 04:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by suniti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋