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ok so ive heard taht hpv can become dorment but ive been with my bf of 1 year and i recently found out i had hpv and it didnt show up the first time.

i asked him how do i have it all of a sudden now did u cheat on me he said no he didnt he didnt know he had hpv. apparently there are no tests for men. anyway i asked my gyno and he said no it stays dorment most likely he didnt cheat on u its very common that people assume this.

2006-11-10 07:17:06 · 9 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Health Diseases & Conditions STDs

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I have had HPV for over ten years now and I run a several groups for it. I have seen HPV lie dormant in women for up to 30 years! I know HPV is some very tricky stuff, but just because you came up with it out of the blue does NOT mean your boyfriend cheated on you. I really hate to see relationships go down the drain over false information.

You can have it for years before it causes you a problem, or you can never have a problem from it....most people don't. If you don't have warts or dysplasia from it you would never even knew you had it! You can fight it off into dormancy and later it reappear again because your immune system is shot. All it takes is a weak spot in your body to allow it to come out and play.

Your right, there are no approved tests for men right now. If you have it then your boyfriend probably does too. He just won't know it unless he gets warts from a "low risk" strain, "high risk" strains are associated with precancerous cells of the cervix, but rarely cause a problem in men. SO peope can have it, not know it, and pass it on.

2006-11-13 04:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by luv2lotto 3 · 0 0

men and women can get it but it can be a worse outcome for the woman (us women get all the great things hey!!) You can contract warts(HPV) and it be on the genitals but it can also go inside the cervix, which if left undetected can lead to cancer cells being produced cin1 2 3 4 5. 5 being being the worst. And because you get pap smears 2 yearly, it could be from a previous partner. I had cin3 a few years ago but never had them on the genitals. I had to go have them lasered off. Usually it is done under a general anesthetic but can be done under a local which is what I did (less down time) plus it really was just uncomfortable, the local needles were like a pinch and could not feel a thing after that. But at least this is treatable and curable and there is like you said a vaccine now which is great!

2016-05-22 03:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

No, I have had a scare like this before to. Some STD's can lay unknown in the body for years with no symptoms. Some will affect one person and will show no signs on another. Do some research on the internet or at the library. Remember to read more then one source

2006-11-10 10:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by goldie89lynn 1 · 0 0

No it doesnt mean he cheated on you. You could have gotten it from a past boyfriend, or he could have gotten it from a past girlfriend. Theres really no way of knowing.

2006-11-12 04:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

OH DEAR GOD!!!! do you realize there is a 20% chance of that turning into cervical cancer? SEE this is why i oppose sex before marriage. Oh he definatelly didn't cheat on you, but i feel sorry for you

2006-11-10 14:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I dont think he cheated on you if your doctor said this is common. I dont know alot about this though so I hope it is cure able good luck!

2006-11-10 10:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kari 3 · 0 0

If you had a sexual partner before this current boyfriend, it is possible that you caught it from him and it has lain dormant in you for a this time period.

2006-11-10 13:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by 13th Floor 6 · 0 0

This is a real site about HPV. Please take some time and read this:

http://www.niaid.nih.gov/factsheets/stdhpv.htm

2006-11-10 07:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes it does. my opion?

2006-11-10 16:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0 0

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