If you found out that your boyfriend/husband or best-friend had HIV/AIDS but they didnt know or have it until after they met you but you have nothing to do with them getting the Disease . Would this change you mind about that person?
2006-11-08 13:27:36 · 13 answers · asked by lilly 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
It's a hard question.
If they didn't know for real, I will try to be understanding and not panic.
If he knew before, I'll get mad and I don't know what I would do.
2006-11-08 15:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by northmiamibeach1975 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I wouldn't be intimate with them ,it definitely would not change how I felt about them as a person. I would continue to love that person. A disease would not change that. Just because someone has AIDS/HIV does not make them a horrible person. They are still the same that they always were. If it were you, wouldn't you want those closest to you to stick by you and be there when you needed them??
2006-11-08 13:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by parrothead2371 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I truly loved or liked this person It would not chance my opinion of them. They are the same person that they were before and would be the same person after. I would give them my full support in their time of need.
They need more than just medical support. Support from a friend or lover is also needed. Think about it would you want to be "turned against" in the same situation?
2006-11-08 13:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
husband or boyfriend, makes you wonder what they are doing with someone else that they should have only been doing with you. but i dont think you know if it changes your feelings until it happens, you can say no, easily enough when it hasnt happened. when it has, you might really feel like you were cheated on and then exposed to a terrible disease.
2006-11-08 13:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not about them. I would just try and be more careful around them. I wouldn't have unprotected sex with the bf/hubby. I wouldn't use the same razors as best friend. I would watch when they bleed and so on but it wouldn't change how much I cared about them.
2006-11-09 02:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, I didn't fall in love with someone's health, I fell in love with them as a person. So they made a mistake, and had unprotected sex, it happens, all the time...it doesn't make them less of a person for having that happen.
2006-11-08 14:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on if he had gotten it while you were together for a long time. I would say that he got it from someone else and he cheated on you. You need to step back and take a hard look at your relationship.
2006-11-08 13:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by cindy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i truley loved that person no i would know what i was in for and as far as children. no i would not want children to go throught what we was going throught as far as changing my mind no. but that is my way of thinking. ?
2006-11-08 17:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would be really upset about it and i think i would rather be by myself
2006-11-10 11:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by crrousey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way... I'd still love em!
2006-11-08 15:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋