OKay I had sex last night and It really hurted okay..Is this normal or should I go to a doctor or something. I am kinda worried that I might have something or my mind is just messing me all up. Oh yeah I forgot to mention that it was pretty hard to get wet. man i need some serious answers...
2006-10-31 07:16:32 · 14 answers · asked by Stunna 25 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
If it was dry the pain could be caused from that. If not seriously get it checked out. It could be simple but it is not something you would want to mess around with (sorry for the pun) Good luck
2006-10-31 07:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by elainecynthia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must understand that your age has a lot to do with things. If you are between the age of 16 to 40 you should go and see a GYN as soon as you can. That is if you have been having intercourse with the same person for some time. If your partner is new he just may be bigger than what you have had till now. However if it is the same partner than see your GYN. Also for play helps with the lubrication. Taking antihistamines can cause dryness too. You sound a bit young by your language so I would think this is not something normal for you. Sex I mean. If it is then when in dought check it out! See your GYN...Good luck...
2006-10-31 07:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by cape nut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are stressed you will not get wet as much that helps.
You also need to tell us if this was your first time. Or if you are active for some time...
If you are new to this then not being wet and new its normal...
plus if your partner does not know what he is doing he can hurt you.
Plus if you have an infection it will hurt....
in all cases just relax an enjoy the little happiness of life.... but always wear protection...
2006-10-31 07:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by TheTick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of questions! Were you drunk? Did they guy take the time to get you aroused? Did he last long enough to get you wet or was he a minute man? Was he larger than you normally have? Basically, if you are really worried, go to the doctor, just get a general checkup and thell him that it hurst when you have sex. Try having sex again without being drunk, and include a lot of forplay. See if that helps.
2006-10-31 07:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man you had sex with did you in totally, ie not enough foreplay etc Leave him he is only wanting to satisfy himself and leave you in a mess In future use a condom and ask a proffessional how it is applied esp if you go for the wham -bam- thank you-mam types, as they won't care or know otherwise a BETTER idea wait till you marry LOL!!!
2006-10-31 07:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by tracey s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain is normal if this is your firsts times...The pain can also be that you weren't llubricated enough... next time take the time to warm up, is the best way.. anyways, if this happens again and you take the time to warm up and/or used lubricator, go see a doctor...
2006-10-31 12:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a virgin? well it depends what kind of pain your feeling, is your partner big? i mean his penis? maybe there was to much friction like you said it was hard ti get wet. Give it a day if it still hurts go to a doctor.
2006-10-31 07:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by hypnos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't always feel good afterwards. There can be some discomfort if you and your partner are not in sync with each other. Dryness can cause an irritation that could be painful.
2006-10-31 10:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are menopausalyou will begin to get drier and it will hurt when you make love. Go see a doctor just to make sure everything is okay. KY Jelly works wonders!!!!
2006-10-31 09:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by ajkoolkats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were dry then yes it will hurt. You can buy stuff at the store its in the same isle as the douche and tampons and stuff. Its a gel you can apply to help your problem. the vagasil brand is good.
2006-10-31 07:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lucille 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋